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Reflective Journal Conflict Management

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Submitted by: Khadija Moh’d # 20220169 A paper submitted in partial fulfillment Of the requirements of # 0503321 Ms. Wadeaa Al-Daghestani University of Sharjah June 18, 2004 Learn Approach To Explore June 18, 2004 was the date of publishing the nursing duty Rota of the MMW where I am having my clinical practicum. During this day, an incident happened through which I came to know how the manager have an immense burden of responsibilities and tasks and one of them is to write the duty list; once performing this task, a lot of disagreement aroused. It was around 10 o’clock, early morning, when the in-charge distributed the duty list to the MMW, CCU, and nursing office. Once the list was hanged, all the …show more content…

The most important step is make sure that all sides to an issue totally understand each other before try to spot the appropriate solutions (Thimm, 2002). Adding up, the staff nurse lacked the assertive behavior and instead she was aggressive. Assertiveness is the ability to express your needs and rights, positive or negative feelings without violating the rights and limits of others (Winkler, 2003). While aggressiveness is suppressing the other person’s rights. It is obvious from the scenario that the nurse was previously behaving in a passive manner in which she denied her own rights i.e. “Today I will not be silent anymore”. Though, when trying to stand for her rights she become aggressive and attacked the in-charge with words that described her with bias and unfairness. I admit that when I used to get angry, I never talked about my problem or to the person I was angry at. I held it inside until I exploded in a negative way. Watching how the staff exploded her accumulative, hidden emotions directed me to learn how to express myself better and say what's on my mind instead of keeping it inside. I learned from this incident that, one could solve problems without using aggression. We have to speak up our problems. We have to be smart and willing to work things out. If I faced the same situation, I would use conflict resolution skills

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