I believe true compassion and empathy is achieved when a new experience is felt by one who has never felt it before. Without the experience, all one can feel is sympathy, even pity; because like asking a blind person to see, how can you feel strong emotion towards something that you haven’t been in first hand? I decided to tell the struggles of others like it was a story in a book. I’ve always been an avid reader, flipping through novels in days and finishing a series in another. I think what appeals books to me so much is how I feel like I am in the story. The emotions, the setting, and the roughness of the oak wand Harry Potty held for the first time in book one are what introduce new experiences to the books audience. In my younger years …show more content…
I wanted to create true empathy between both genders in hopes to eradicate gender stereotypes. To have the other gender “experience” the other genders stereotypes the story needed male and female sterotypes applied to the opposite sex. I was very familiar with female stereotypes; however lacked knowledge about male stereotypes to apply to my characters. I took my time in the summer before my senior year to not only research male hindrances but ask friends and family what they feel is a privilege they do not have. Their experience is highlighted throughout my story because I wanted primary sources to go by. Recognizing that stereotypes usually pane out in ill-diverse or hypo-diverse settings, a school seemed like the perfect setting. I hoped that placing the story in a school would allow my audience to easily connect with the experiences being told because schooling is a common ground for …show more content…
The most difficult part of my senior project simply had to be time management. Throughout my senior year work, AP classes, the school musical, and online courses repeatedly got in the way of completing my story. My anxiety is what beyond doubt motivated me to finish my project early for fear I wouldn’t finish at all and finishing early has reduced my anxiety level considerably. However writing to me cannot be rushed. Doing my short story in one sitting would have produced sloppy that wouldn’t have impacted the audience who read it. I would encourage students that will start their senior project to finish in the summer if their work is able to
To begin, gender roles are a common problem in our society that is heavily influenced by the society’s expectations and one’s own expectations. In Tyler’s bedroom on the first day of school, his sister Hannah was talking with him, “‘I never realized you had a reputation, Ty. I am so proud of you.’ ‘It’s not a good
Empathy is something everyone is capable of feeling, but not everyone chooses to take action and help.“Harvest Gypsies” by John Steinbeck, is a non-fictional story about two migrant families who lived in unstable and filthy conditions. “Mending Wall” by Robert Frost, is a fictional poem regarding the relationship between two neighbors that come together every year to mend a wall that divides their properties. The reader is more likely to experience more empathy while reading “Harvest Gypsies” than while reading “Mending Wall” because, Steinbeck regards real people who suffer through hardships, Frost, on the other hand, doesn’t involve the characters undergoing any distress or misfortune, thus the reader may not fully understand what is
Today, many believe that stereotypes have been eradicated throughout our modern world, this is far from the truth. Beverly Daniel Tatum, an author of several books including “Why Are Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria” asks, “How did academic achievement become defined as exclusively white behavior?” Tatum has an interesting point, however stereotyping is not just about race it can be about gender bias, or body issues too. Ann DuCille, author of “From Multicultural Barbie and the Merchandising of Difference” says; “Barbie 's body is a consumer object itself a vehicle for display of clothing and spectacular trappings of a wealthy teenage fantasy life”. Ducille gives a good example of body politics, and the importance of not only focusing on race. Thus, is a good example of how stereotypes are learned by how one is treated in school or at home. Education about racial identity, gender equality, and body shaming, to an extent, will help eliminate some forms of stereotyping and create a more understanding and equal society. Therefore schools are not the problem, stereotypes, however racist, sexist, or just plain mean, are learned at home and in schools from peers, parents and teachers alike.
Society’s understanding of gender roles debate about gender equity and have always been connected to the social roles that men and women we assigned to shape Americans views of education for girls and boys. What has also been affected is race and social class between females and males who attend schools. Ideas of what women and men are suppose to be and do have cut across different classifications. Ending unfairness in schools has rested on change to gender roles mainly women.
What is it about literature that makes people more empathetic? Empathy defined is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. Similarly, the word compassion expresses the idea of expressing sympathy or concern for those who are suffering. Literature forms an empathetic compassion in the reader to comprehend others’ life challenges, and it sparks a drive in the reader to conquer their own trials.
Men and women struggle with stereotypes everyday in their lives. From a young age, children are taught to be themselves, and embrace their special identity. Yet, our school systems are constantly reminded how to act by administrators and peers. As illustrated in, “Dude You’re a Fag”, the author, C.J. Pascoe, gives countless examples of inequality between genders in the school setting. Instead of schools trying to change someone’s uniqueness, schools settings should embrace gender fluidity; this transition would ward off harassment and buoy up ingenuity.
Her intention behind interviewing Leonard Sax for the interview was to provide teachers with the tools to better engage students based on their gender and as a result combat gender stereotypes in schools. The ideas presented would be easy to implement in the classroom, if the right balance of styles that work better for the different genders is found. However, while the techniques provided by Dr. Sax in the interview to help better engage boys and girls in schools would indeed be helpful, they are not helpful in reaching the goal to end gender stereotyping in education. By completely disregarding students who are transgender, gender queer, or gender non-binary, Dr. Sax and Angela Watson completely erase a community of students who exist in today’s schools. They also do not consider the issue that different learning styles do not always directly correlate to gender, and by suggesting they do are unknowingly contributing to gender stereotypes in
The results of stereotyping inside schools have a big impact on young women's lives and how it may affect them in the near future. There are many cases where the Sadkers’ talk about prejudices in the school that can cause repercussions to young girls. An example is when “Dateline Showed a lively discussion in the school library. With both girls’ hands and boys’ hand waving for attention, the librarian chose boy after boy to speak”(para.13). Not only in school do girls get discriminated with how they were born but also in different cultures. Since I am from a Mexican and Puerto Rican culture my parents expect different from me than my brother. An example is when my brother wanted to spend the night with his friends and my parents allowed him, however; when I asked to spend the night at my friends I was
Regardless of a students’ gender by the end of the story, this book does all the right things in teaching children about stereotypes, and finding one’s self esteem, learning to accept themselves for who they are, and to recognize their strengths. It also teaches them that in life many things may not turn out the way you want it to, but that it is ok and dealing with it will only make you stronger. Robert Munsch’s, “The Paper Bag Princess” is an empowering and uplifting story about a strong princess and an unworthy prince, and highly recommended to help introduce students to issues about stereotypes, equality, appreciation for oneself and others, and to
Empathy is extraordinarily important for children to understand and eventually put into practice, as it exercises their ability to feel and respect the emotions of other people. Empathy also plays a big role in trust and support- both of which are very important aspects of any relationship, and is necessary for living a healthy, functional life in today’s society. In her article, Dovey describes “A 2011 study published in the Annual Review of Psychology […] showed that, when people read about an experience, they display stimulation within the same neurological regions as when they go through that experience themselves.” (Dovey par. 11). This means that when people, or in this case, children, read stories, their brains react as if they were going through the same situations and emotions that they read about. This is a great way for kids to learn about empathy, why it’s important, and how to apply it to their own lives. One may argue that, while reading may trigger empathetic feelings in the majority of people, those who enjoy reading have greater empathetic tendencies than others, making reading to teach empathy only applicable to those who like to read and have these higher-than-average tendencies. Dovey also addresses this, stating that “other studies published in 2006 and 2009 showed […] that people who read a lot of fiction [tended] to be better at empathizing with others (even after the researchers had accounted for the potential bias that people with greater empathetic
In many cases the classroom reinforces gender stereotypes perpetuated by society. This can be found in the materials used for instruction,
Education assumes a focal role in this debate. Schools involve a one of a kind position in the public eye, and the part of the school is principal in advancing gender balance. By bringing issues to light, widening skylines, going up against falsehood, growing the information base to incorporate the grant of women and in addition men, and offering new models of conduct, the school can be seen as an instrument for positive change. This study will concentrate on gender Stereotypes, and particularly, the negative impact they have on women in the work environment.
My mom came from typical gender role family, which didn’t surprise me. Her mother stayed at home to raise her and her brother and keep the house, while her father went to work every day to provide for the family. My mother attended public school for the first years of her life until she was out of “junior high,” as she called it. I think it’s interesting how her generation refers to it as junior high, but the generation today considers it to be called middle school. After junior high, my mother moved to a private boarding school called Oak Hill Academy. She wasn’t sent to a boarding school because she was “bad,” but because her parents wanted her to have access to a quality education. She graduated valedictorian of her class, which doesn’t surprise me because I have always considered my mom to be the “brains” of my family. She accounts for her time at Oak Hill, and remembers it so clearly. She didn’t mind boarding school, but she missed her friends that she had made throughout her life back in Beckley, which I will talk about later on. She talked about the realness of gender separation in high school, and how it always bothered her. At Oak hill, women didn’t have the opportunity to play any sports other than cheerleading. Men were the only ones able to play basketball and other sports. My mother always wanted to play tennis but was
For this ethnographic paper, I have chosen to interview three female friends currently at college in different countries. I intentionally chose these three girls because they completely fit in the category that many societies have about feminism. The three girls are from France, United States, and Angola. My idea was to have ideas about gender coming from not only different countries, but different continents. Based on what I read in the textbook, and what we have discussed in class, gender is the idea that different societies create about feminism and masculinity based on the performance from both sexes. The problem of gender inequality is not recent, but something that many societies have been trying to fix for a long time. As soon I asked about their experience with gender, they all answered the same thing. The three girls answered what I was really expecting, that if you are a boy you do things like play sports, work out every week, and so on. This answer led me to the conclusion that stereotypes about gender performance are popular among almost every societies. I asked this question as way to get a little background about gender in different countries, but I have noticed that their ideas were very similar. Nowadays, in college environment there are a lot of stereotypes and discrimination against female based on the role that they play in society, and I decided to analyze it closely in order to see how it can affect female’s performance. Stereotypes about female’s role
Males and Females no matter the age face gender stereotypes everyday of their lives. As we are brought up we are taught to be our own individuals with our own ideas, but society tends to break that down. When we think about school, Gender Stereotyping doesn’t really come to mind, but if you think about it that’s where is all begins. In school, they have “dress code”, wear everyone falls under, meaning you can’t just wear whatever you want. Also, in schools when it comes to activities boys are pushed more to do outside activates compared to girls that do inside activities. Overall kids themselves start to separate themselves into two categories, boy with boys and girls with girls. Even though males and females are different, we should still take the time to teach kids that they aren’t put into two separate categories, but that they should be the person they want to be.