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Sexual Roles And Gender Roles

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Sexual scripts is defined as culturally approved set of expectations as to how one should behave sexually as male or female and as heterosexual, gay, or lesbian. The traditional male sexual scripts are that men are the initiators of sexual encounters. Men are expected to be assertive, confident, and knowledgeable about sexual matters. Men are supposed to know how to please their partners and persuade their partners to share sexual intimacy. On the other hand, the sexual scripts of women are very different. Women are expected to wait for and obey with the male’s initiation of sexual activity and to be pleased with how the sexual encounters progress. The female script concentrates more on feelings than on sex, and more on love than on passion. The traditional female scripts about sex, left many women unable to talk about sex openly and easily because women are expected to not have strong sexual feelings. Thus, this is how sexual scripts vary by gender.

Tradition sexual scripts provide different roles and responsibilities to females and males. Initiation of sex is placed upon the male as the women are expected to obey the males initiation. Contemporary sexual scripts is different because sexual activities are a mutual exchange of erotic pleasure. Sexuality equally involved both partners, and the partners are equally responsible and either partner may initiate sexual activities.

Parents express attitudes about sex to their children in a few ways. For example, what parents

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