This article lists the best 10 tips you will ever receive about how to fail in relationships. Paying great attention to them is a sure way to understand how to keep sabotaging your relationships over and over again. Read and internalize with the fullest attention.
1. Never take responsibility for your part in the failure of your relationships. Always blame your partners.
Taking responsibility shows that you too might be wrong. This can take away some of the respect and love your partner feels towards you. Being sure you are always right is the best way to prove your integrity and show how strong you are!
2. Don 't ever try to get in touch and understand the needs which might drive you to sabotage your relationships.
Trying to understand what might drive you to sabotage your relationships means that you don 't know yourself 100%. It means you don 't know "who you truly are."
In today 's world, where "knowledge is power", not knowing "who you are" is a weakness. You can 't allow yourself to believe and assume you have personal needs you are not aware of which might drive you to harm your relationships.
There is no reason for you to even consider the possibility that you have needs which cause you to sabotage your relationships (such as: the need to always be in control which drives your partners away from you; the need to always get attention and love which makes you too dependent on your partners; the need to always be "right" which makes you an unpleasant and
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This first key negative traits to set and because most relationship start to failure; which leads to increase of frustration and distance between both parties. In order to prevent this stage to set in, men need to learn to communicate their needs in more positive structure
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