As a young child, everything was positive. Everything was okay; nothing in the world could have possibly gone wrong. Even in a graveyard, everything seemed to be another day. The green grass, the tall stones, the light blue sky, hanging over our heads. “It’s a park mom! Look at all these stones to rest behind after a game of tag!” I received some soft smiles, some little laughs. There is nothing heart-breaking about this place.
Or at least I thought.
It only took one word to have my world come crashing down into pieces. Death. On September 19th, the day I was told, nothing seemed to have been different. I felt the same, looked the same -- everything around me was the exact same. There was no burning in my eyes, no feeling as if my throat
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The tears swelled in my eyes. Don’t cry, don’t cry. Everything is alright. Then came the burning in my throat, and my chest tightened. Almost as if I swallowed a stone and there are only limited breathes before I’d find myself in a casket. A pounding had formed in my head, an ongoing bang as if I was a nail that was getting hammered into the wall. I was given a flower to put next to him in the casket. The same bright flowers at the graveyard. It is different; this is my grandfather. He cannot be gone, he isn’t gone. I am not ready to let go just yet. I was still holding on to his hand so tightly.
People gathered in the funeral home, and the constant pats on my back and saying how sorry they were was all that was said to me that night. I wanted to respond with “Why are you sorry?” like I would have as a child. Instead, I just nodded and lent a faint smile to each person. There were also a series of hugs for sympathy, but each hug made the burning grow and the tears want to spill more. No crying. Not yet.
Eventually, as it came time to say our last goodbyes, I felt someone slip their arms around me. I was prepared for my answer, but instead, new words came.
“He loved you so much,” the voice whispered. “Remember that.” And I did. I was the last to say my good-bye. I gripped onto his hand, ignoring the coldness. I put the flower next to him, and allowed the stem to touch his palm. I then took a chain with my first and last initials on
Thank you for letting my go, for finally ending the pain you knew I had always felt when it came to loving you. I hope you were aware of how difficult it was for me to give you the type of love you so heavily demanded. I was only destroying myself, tearing my soul apart, piece by piece, just to put a smile on your face. Thank you for finally realizing that you have to work on yourself first. I am not and never was capable of doing that for you—no one else is. It was about time you'd decided to end the nights spent crying and the days spent fighting.
And then she turned to me. I felt special that she had saved me for last. I smiled at her, and she did the same to me. We had grown inseparable over the past few years especially, but now it was time to say goodbye. I knew at that point that nothing at all would change, that we would still be sisters, still be best friends, still be inseparable. Who cares if we’re 5 ½ hours away? This was us.
The short note read, “Dear Paisley, I know this may be hard to understand, but it’s for the best. This is the only place I could go. We will always be together, I love you. Love, Sarah”
The sky and all its beautiful colors are all that were running through my mind. I didn't notice it then, but that was the last day we ever had those moments not only there but back home too. I never expect for him to leave, which was foolish. He found happiness in the bottom of a drink, how couldn't alcohol take him? I realize we're all trying to kill that pain somehow. I didn't imagine his death would take a hold of my life, but in a way it did. You see he was the only close death, I experienced in my 17 years, before him I didn't think death would ever influence me, for it was just a life check everyone check off eventually. I took his death as unexplained for so long, all I had angry and unresolved feelings and they controlled a part of my life. I know that pain will always be there, but my life couldn’t stop, I couldn’t let this unresolved grief influence me as my uncles did. Although death is a sad thing, you have must choose whether to let it destroy oneself or sharpen it. I’m still on the path of understanding how life is after the death, still I remember he loved us and he isn’t sadden anymore, and that gives me joy and keeps on
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“I’m sorry, my love,” I said as my eyes began to water. She grabbed her chest in pain and stared at me. Her eyes teared up and a single tear ran down her cheek as she took her final breath. I did what I had done so many times before, but I never felt any remorse for my actions until then.
“Your mother and I are getting divorced. This does not change how much we each love the two of you. Things around here will be changing but our love for you both does not.” Immediately after I heard those first seven words, I ran down the hallway to my room and slammed the door behind me. I had no idea how the two people I loved
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After so long apart you are still able to put me at ease and when your hand reached out to hold mine, I realized that I had found my future, my soul-mate and the love that I had always dreamed of discovering again after I lost that it so long ago. We spoke for hours about every possible subject and never ran out of words to say to each other.