The Warmest December
The Warmest December is a story of a young girl and her family as they move through an abusive past with an alcoholic man. Kenzie struggles through childhood only to find that she has started to become her father, Hy-Lo. She visits him daily and relives painful moments from her past at his bedside. The book is filled with difficult accounts of her physical and emotional abuse as she grows up. This paper will discuss the topics of recovery and forgiveness after a troubled past as it pertains to both The Warmest December and other books we have read, specifically Breath, Eyes, Memory by Edwidge Dandicat.
Recovery and forgiveness are central themes in The Warmest December. Kenzie is challenged by both and
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This is a seemingly impossible task. Della believes it is impossible. She even says, "Don't you forgive him, Kenzie, don't you dare." Della refuses to forgive Hy-Lo and is therefore resigned to her fate of living out her days on the couch with television and Pepsi. She is a contrast to her daughter in this way. She is one possible vision of the future Kenzie if she does not change. Kenzie is ready to move on, she is just not sure how. The nurse D. character helps her realize how. Kenzie finds out that her father also grew up in an abusive environment with an alcoholic parent. I think she had an idea that this was true, at least subconsciously. Something drew her to that hospital bed even before she found out, something that she could not define herself. The new knowledge gives Kenzie a new perspective on her father and his actions. What he did was wrong, that's no question, but he had a disease and she does not allow herself to let him hide behind an excuse. He wasn't able to control his drinking or his actions when he was drunk. This is evidenced by the fact that he is so passive when he is sober; the sober Hy-Lo just sits and takes it when Della yells at him and the drunken Hy-Lo beats her. It is also evidenced by Hy-Lo's actions when his mother is present. Kenzie now knows what he had gone through; she knows the grip that alcoholism can have on you as demonstrated by the scene in which she finds the vodka in the Christmas box. Kenzie, just as so many
The novel “The Coldest Winter Ever” by Sister Souljah follows the life of the lead character Winter Santiago and her family. Born in Brooklyn,New York, Winter Santiago was the daughter of a young mother and the notorious drug dealer Ricky Santiago. From the beginning of the novel Winter lets it known that she was born into luxury, and just because she lived in the projects of Brooklyn didn't mean she was poor.In fact it was the exact opposite for the Santiago family.Winter came into adolescence as a shallow, self-centered individual, motivated solely by physical attractiveness, material possessions and the desire to attract as many men as possible. On Winter’s six-tenth birthday her father Ricky Santiago decides it's finally time to move his family out of the ghetto. Winter’s mother and sisters were very excited for the move although Winter was livid. The family’s move to a mansion in Long Island did not stop Winter from desiring her ghetto culture. It also didn’t help that neither parents were actual parents to Winter. Shortly after the family moves to Rhode island the FBI raid the house and arrest Ricky Santiago on several charges. After Santiago’s arrest his empire begins to crumble. All of the family possessions are seized leaving Winter, her mother and her three younger siblings to fend for themselves. Winter selfishness didn't let that happen,she decided to go on her own and hustle her way back into the lifestyle she once lived.Unfortunately things didn't work out for winter the way she wanted. Instead of getting things done on her own Winter looked for a man to take care of her, because that was the only thing her mother taught her. The same man that was supposed to love and take care of her let her take the fall for his crimes, and ultimately sent Winter to jail for a fifth-teen year sentence.
What if every day you woke up to fireplace smoke in your face, people around you dying of sickness,and when you went to go have breakfast there was no food? The first two years had not gone well for the continental army. Since the summer of 1775 when he had taken command, George Washington and his troops had withdrawn from Boston and retreated from New York.On October 1777, General Howe marched his army into the national capital of Philadelphia. With Howe’s army of 18,000 quartered in Philly, washington decided to build a winter camp at Valley Forge. Many soldiers while living there got sick from fireplace smoke,and catching diseases, and lastly there was a major shortage of food while Washington's soldier stayed there. I will not re-enlist because there are too many people with illnesses,a big shortage of food and the overall risk and fear of the unknown.
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Once upon a dark and snowy Friday night, a mysterious man named Rabbi Hirsch came out of the dark eeriness of his desolate and abandoned synagogue and asked a boy named Michael Devlin if he could turn on the lights for him. Michael in the book Snow in August by Pete Hamill, at first hesitated, but then he willfully did the task. This started a wonderful friendship between the two Brooklyn residents that brought out the in best each other despite their different backgrounds. However, with the relationship came some physical and emotional turmoil as a result of the Rabbi being Jewish and most of Brooklyn being anti-semitic, meaning that they are hostile towards Jews. This was evident when Frankie McCarthy and his band of best friends named
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The bond between a mother and child is often spoken of as being unlike any other. Yet there are always exceptions to the rule where this connection isn 't as impenetrable as one might assume. This book is an example of this bond gradually becoming weaker over time. It shows how it affects the child, Bone, and leaves her vulnerable to the abuse of her step-father. Bone’s mother, Anney, had fallen in love with a man who abused her which at first, she’s unaware but eventually comes to realize but still chooses to stay with him. Throughout the book there are instances of Anney’s negligence in recognizing her daughter’s abuse and being of aid to her but wasn 't. In having to deal with her
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This arising tone of regret and distance is also formed by the speaker’s depiction of his father having “cracked hands that ached,” (1. 3) which further signifies the father’s struggle with the severe coldness. The concept of self-sacrifice is apparent in this portrayal of his father’s disregard to his own pain in order to provide warmth and light for his family’s home. The stirring of “banked fires blaze” (1. 5) within the house,
Rich successfully uses strong images and an extended metaphor to establish a theme that shows that by re-examining a hurtful experience one can experience a rebirth of their
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"Those Winter Sundays" is a very touching poem. It is written by Robert Hayden who has written many other poems. This paper will talk about the poem "Those Winter Sundays". In particular we will look at the structure, main idea, and each stanza of the poem.
Christmas is my favorite holiday of the year. I love seeing the shinny Christmas lights that decorates my street and the sound of fresh fallen snow on the ground. Christmas reminds me of family, the laughter and loved we shared, and the gifts we gave to each other. My house on Christmas became the center of my joy.
It was a normal winter morning. I woke up freezing my butt off. The night before we