All I can say about being a teenager is that it’s strange. Sometimes the aspects of life that my peers, and I, think are important, are really just stupid and inconsequential. Take, for example, technology. A lot of my peers might ask, “Is that the iPhone 7?” or “Are you getting the new MacBook Pro?” But what significance will all of those devices have in just a couple of years? What about grades, or being active in your community? The newest iPhone won’t help you get into a better college, or help that interviewer decide whether or not you should get the job. As teenagers, this is the point in our lives where it’s most important to distinguish between the importance of tasks and ideas and prioritize as much as possible. The habits we form now are going to be very hard to break later on, and as we gain more independence from our parents, it our own responsibility to build those good habits. Independence is great, right? I would say some aspects are, but others make …show more content…
Finish the task with the greatest priority first, then work your way down. When doing homework, put your phone away, it will still be there when you finish. In fact, avoid as many distractions as possible so that you’re not tempted to lose focus. There is no reason you should have to stay up past midnight like I had to.
When I look back at my time in school, this is what I regret the most. I always spent so much of my time on my phone talking to friends when I should have been doing my homework. In a lot of cases, this is the reason that I even had to stay up well past midnight sometimes. I lost focus on what was important. Realistically, it’s impossible to eliminate distractions, or manage my time perfectly, but as I look forward to college and beyond, I hope to strongly develop and use good time management in all aspects of my
The initial shock of the significant workload and expectations can take their toll, but good time management skills can prevent multiple late nights in a row to get assignments done on time. Kelci Lynn Lucier has worked in higher education for ten years, and has experienced students struggle to try and find the balance between extracurricular activities, personal activities, and education priorities. Luckily, Lucier has four tips to help best use the time provided in a day. Lucier’s first step focuses on managing ones academic time and how it needs to be the top priority above all other curricular activities, stating: “It's important to remind yourself why you're in college in the first place: to graduate” (Lucier). Lucier’s second step is be able to manage personal time, she talks about how unrealistic it is to always be working, studying, or learning, she wants students to try and find time to do something fun with friends or a club. Lucier’s third step is to wkeep the students health in mind, it does no good to stay up until two in the morning studying over a history mid-term, only to be half asleep for the test anyway; sleep is important and without can only increase the stress. Lucier’s fourth and final step is to not be afraid to seek help with your time management, she states: “The most important thing to have for time
Is being a teenager really worth it; all the stress, problems, and judgements that come with it? Society, family, and friends telling you this and that, is sometimes too much too handle. In the book, Teenagers Preparing for the Real World by Chad Foster, teenagers are given tips to deal with the stress of being a teenager. The author prepares and tells teenagers how to deal with the “real world.”
Mark Rowh, the author of the article “Beat the Clock: Students share time-management strategies that can work for you,” talks about the struggle that students have when it comes to time management. Rowh introduces us to the topic of his article by mentioning a high school senior and her daily life. He goes into detail about how her day passes by, and how she struggles to find time devoted to her well-being. He did a good job when he provided us with an example that we can all relate to. “Life is a balance of both busy moments and time for yourself,” says Rowh (2006, p. 24). I totally agree with him on that statement and I always try to make time for myself after I complete my responsibilities. The author collected five strategies from busy
The teenagers I interviewed were all relatively affluent, by all appearances and their own admission, and this in and of itself created some differences between their perspectives and my own. In general, however, I think that the passage of time and the different values and perspectives of parents and of teenagers in the current era are more responsible for the changes in responses that I observed in the interview as opposed to what I myself might have said as a teenager in answer to the questions posed in the interview. What they liked about being a teenager was relative freedom while still being able to depend on their parents, and they disliked the rules and the amount of activities they had; they went on to mention "best things" that included things ranging from romantic partners to video games, and "worst things" that focused primarily on various aspects of school specific teachers, subjects, etc. I, on the other hand, would have said that my independence was what I liked the most about being a teenager, as this was the time in my life when my parents made it clear that I both would and should depend on them less for transportation, keeping myself organized, etc. I disliked the amount of responsibility I had to some degree, but all of my responsibilities were things of my own choosing and would have also represented the best thing in my life (the extracurricular activities that I chose to participate in).
That is no trivial task. Not only must we deal with our developing ability for self-identification and awareness, but we have to do it juiced up on every hormone our bodies are capable of creating, twisted into one gigantic angst cocktail. Teen angst is an unoriginal and sometimes laughable concept, yet as much as I'd like to dismiss it as such, the shoe ironically fits quite snugly. With this in mind, I believe having a perspective on life and privileges is something that is one of the utmost important skills to have as a teenager, because it solves most, if not all, of my problems. There are many teenagers out there living extremely stressful and testing lives, sometimes to an almost unfathomable extent. Understandably, supporting your family financially or dealing with serious dangers in everyday life is harrowing to anybody, especially for an adolescent. Knowing this, I have come to be much more appreciative of the stability and opportunities present in my
First of all, for a better quality and the substantial amount of sleep I will try to get my homework done at least one hour before I go to bed. This is so I will be away from one more electronic, using my laptop for Schooloop and Google Docs, before I go to sleep to escape the melatonin depleting blue light. However, I need to find a way to get off my phone. I will do this by making sure I have things to do before I go to bed, such as showering right before I go to bed and packing my backpack for the next day. But, I know this won’t take an hour exactly. To take up time, I plan to read non-critical reading magazines, such as Good Housekeeping and People in bed. Hopefully, this will take up time for the hour before I go to bed. For finishing my homework in a timely matter, I will try not to let my mind wander about the weather in different areas. Also, I will prioritize my homework based on closest due date to farthest, in hopes that will motivate
Once upon a time Cuba was a state ruled by the American law. Then a man came, namely Fidel Castro, and fought for an independent state of Cuba. After the death of thousands and intensive diplomatic negotiations Cuba became an independent nation. Just like Castro’s independence many people strived to become independent throughout the history in different ways. Independence is a state of being where one is free from the rule of authority. The desire for independence by the people lacking it formed a positive connotation for the word; at the same time, unjustified negative connotations of the word was developed by the individuals aiming to hinder the independence of people.
As teenagers we are never able to make our mind up, we struggle to find something to do when were bored and usually end up just going home to lay in bed and watch Netflix. This quote by Emerson, “I lose days determining how hours should be spent” really hit home. There is too much arguing and too much stress involved with making decisions
As a result of getting distracted teens tend to lose judgment of what’s really important. On habit two “begin with the end in mind,” Covey teaches teens ways to find fulfillment in their accomplishments, and how to control their paths if they focus on what really matters. Habit two helps teens develop a clear picture of where they want to go with their life, and deciding what their values are. In the book the author wrote “So often in our quest to be more popular and to be part of the “in group,” we lose sight of things that are more important,”(Sean Covey, 82). Readers can clearly identify from this quote that sometimes in our journey to be well liked, we lose sense of what's really important. Teenagers losing track on what’s important will
As a result, many teenagers turn to different ways to cope with the changes they face with. High school comes with added responsibilities and pressure to achieve excellent grades, stay involved in extracurricular activities, maintain a social life and get into a really great school offering lots of scholarship money. If mom and dad are divorced, someone is dealing with an illness or there is some sort of disfunction in the home, home life can lead a teenager into deep depression. Acceptance is high on every teenager's list of needs whether they admit or not. Everyone wants to be considered cool and accepted by their peers. The stress of getting into and maintaining social circles can be a real challenge. Last but not least, the teenage years are usually the time when hormones are at an all-time high. Growth spurts, acne and total awkwardness are often synonymous with being a teenager and dealing with physical changes. When a good support system is in place, the sky is the limit for what a teenager can achieve. However, when teenagers deal with conflict in the aforementioned areas in life, it isn't difficult to sink into a
3. Managing time can be quite stressful for anyone as busy as the modern day college student. Many students lose sleep or feel as if they just don’t have enough time to accomplish what they need to accomplish.
Independence can be taken in more than one way. It can be viewed as being an individual free from influence of others, or socially intrinsic and introverted. Both of these definitions are me. I 've spent many years of my life worrying about how others view me. But, I can happily say that where I 'm at in my life right now, the obsession has diminished. Sometimes my mom mistakes this for a lack of care and indifference, but it has made me who I am today. As far as social interactions go, I do find myself becoming tired when constantly forced to be extroverted. Over the summer I went on a two-week trip with my neighbors to The Gulf of Mexico for fishing and scalloping. Towards the end of the trip, I found myself becoming snippy towards
I do not have enough time for me to do my homework and my chores on the same day.
“No one's gonna drag you up to get into the light where you belong.” This was a motto posted in a public bathroom, with no author to credit. We live in a world where self-reliance is the norm, and the worship of self is encouraged. In Christianity, our reliance is not on our own strength, but on Him who breathed life into me and works all things for my good. God is a gentleman and His invisible hand of guidance is the reliability we all need, for it is greater than we can fathom. God is our light, whom we belong to. Without Him, we are lost in the darkness of this temporary world.
How I manage time is a reflection of what I value. Managing my time corresponds to how successful I will be in college and throughout life. Knowing and setting priorities to meet goals, carrying out plans, taking control of time, and staying focused are some events that are involved with time management. For many of us, balancing school with work and family is the greatest challenge involved with prioritizing. Good advance planning will help in meeting these challenges. Staying focused is usually difficult, especially for first-year students. Staying focused entails remembering and dedicating to the most important purpose for being in college. Sacrificing unnecessary commitments and keeping my