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Communication Reflection

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There is a significant difference between my perception of communication at the beginning of this course compared to now. Initially, I was aware communication was an important skill people needed to have, but I wasn’t fully aware of the depth of communication. I never realized there were such a variety of behaviors and characteristics that impacted the ability for people to communicate effectively. Once I started completing the self-assessments my perspective was broaden and I gained helpful insight into my own communication strengths and weaknesses. With each self-assessment I truly felt I was getting to know myself better. Based on the results from my self-assessments it became clear to me that I definitely need to improve my …show more content…

When I was taking the conflict resolution assessment I used my previous relationship as a guide for answering the questions. I came to the conclusion that due to my fear of conflict I was only creating more of a conflict for myself. Instead of making such an effort to avoid conflict within my relationship, I should’ve been more open and honest. With this relationship in particular, I never let my frustration and anger get to the surface. I kept it all bottled up inside and felt that the things I was getting upset over were silly and not worth fighting over. By not letting it be known that certain things were bothering me, my partner’s behavior stayed the same. Eventually, it caused us to grow distant and the relationship failed. I believe that if I had known then the proper way to resolve a conflict and communicate my feelings the relationship would’ve been healthier. Despite some of the major improvements I need to make to my communication skills, I was also able to discover a few strengths I have with communicating. One of my major strengths is my ability to empathize with other people. My score for the empathy quotient assessment was above the average female score. I found this score to be relevant because I pick up easily on the way other people are feeling. I also easily can put myself into other people’s shoes and see things from their perspective. I experience the greatest joy in

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