Sticking to my beliefs helped my personal growth in identifying what and who I do not want to be. I can recognize changes in one’s character. It also allows me to understand that if you don’t stand for something you will fall for anything. I am humble and empathetic towards others and their hardships.
One thing that really stood out to me this year was at senior retreat when Janna said “you don't have to be religious to be spiritual.” I thought that fit my situation almost perfectly. I believe in a higher power and that by being a good person will earn you a spot in whatever heaven is out there. However, I don't believe that by getting a divorce, or being gay, or eating meat on a Friday in Lent will send you to Hell. I believe the way you live your life and the way you treat other people will determine your future. From realizing that, my journey has come a long way. Because my family is so religious, I often feel lost because I don't believe everything they
I say begin because to quote father Kirby “The depth of our character is as vast and large as the entire galaxy”. We can never fully know who we are and we can never fully know someone else. That is, in my humble opinion, what makes life so amazing. However, what I have learned is that I have a moral duty to attempt to the best of my abilities and with the help of our Lord to be a man of good moral character, who’s action reflects that, and as a result build better communities. Communities that are just and of good moral character. In addition, to aspire to be as both Professor Kirby and Michael Himes have stressed so eloquently to be a man of integrity. So that when my eventual time comes, everyone, I’ve left behind can say I was the same person to them all. I now understand what it means to habitually answer the call to recognize, respect and respond to other persons as creatures fashioned in the image and likeness of God. To focus more on helping others and try to guide them with nothing but my best intentions and “to give myself away” to quote Michael Himes, and by doing so be of good moral character. In light of this, it is due to my countless hours reading the book “Character, choices and community” that I have committed to memory the second chapter, a chapter I believe of grave important
As a counselor, I need to be aware of my values and beliefs. This is important so I can prevent my values from influencing my clients, their views, and my own views of my clients. Essentially, values are what is important to us in life, and they influence how we act in both our personal and professional lives. Part of my job as a counselor will be to assist my clients in finding answers that are congruent with their values, not the values that I hold. To identify my values and beliefs, I participated in many self-reflective exercises. These exercises not only helped me identify my values and beliefs, but they also enlightened me on how I view people and the world as a whole.
PCF 3: I understood how distinct individuals’ personal values are and the need to acknowledge these personal differences.
Dorothy McFerrin’s answers during our interview about being an authentic leader confirmed my perception of her authenticity. Her commitment to community service and her unending dedication to seeking opportunities to better those communities was inspiring. I was overwhelmed with excitement in the fact that she would take the time to answer questions to help a Texas A&M student complete an assignment. Just another example of her taking the time to communicate and lead through focusing on the needs of others. I am grateful for this learning experience and her focus on taking risk and generating small wins has motivated me to want to step out and serve others. I appreciate her convictions to her values and I could be an authentic follower because
It is essential to me that I remain authentic to my call in that it brings what I enjoy doing, what I am good at, and what others need from me together. A part of this is to be open to the possibility of change and to embrace how I can continue to grow and hone my skills. I value the opportunities to continue learning and connecting with people around me. I must understand that I am walking a path that is unique to me, as everyone else is on their path in life. It is okay to have conflict and stumbling blocks, yet I must persevere and listen to the voice that is
John O'Leary stressed the importance of three questions: Why me? Who cares? What more can I do? From the introduction, these were posed through a negative mindset, but as he continued, he gave their meaning a new light. People face hardships each day, some more horrific than others. As for Mr. O'Leary, one childish mistake changed his life forever. Learning how he overcame the obstacle of healing from burns that covered one-hundred percent of his body exposed how hope, love, and faith can reignite the passion for life. We can easily choose to give up, but what a waste that is to allow yourself to fall away. Each individual has the opportunity to make an extraordinary impact on the world, so instead of bowing down to the troubles, one can fight and prove their worthiness. In order to blossom as a servant leader, it is important to realize you need to hold on to courage and passion, so that your efforts can have their full potential.
In my daily life, I choose to have integrity in everything I do. A person of integrity has good moral character and does the right thing even when others are not around to see. With integrity, people know I am trustworthy and will make choices with the wellbeing of others in mind. Being a person of integrity has played a very big role in my life because people know they can count on me and that I will be loyal, allowing me to receive many positions of leadership and opportunities. I also strive for the quality of compassion, by treating others the way I would want to be treated and going the extra mile to help people. I always try to put the needs of others before myself, and work to serve the people around me. It makes my day when I get to assist and serve others, whether they are students in my class to elders in my church. Lastly, I try to live by the value of diligence in my everyday life in every aspect. Whether it is studying for hours to ensure I make good grades, to dedicating time to participate in organizations on campus, or even arriving to games early and proudly yelling for our Fighting Texas Aggie football team win or lose, in everything I do I give it my all. I set goals for myself and do not stop until I reach
Issue: With whom do you agree? Why? What values did you use to reach your
So how do we begin the journey of giving wisely? We suggest that clients begin with self-discernment.
By going through the “Core Values” assessment, it becomes easier to pinpoint what I myself as an individual believe to be the values I
As I have grown as an adult and moved further towards success in my life, I have always maintained a guided structure to achieve goals and tasks that challenge me. I call these my “Core Values”. This is a strict regimen or a belief system that I have instilled into my everyday practice to complete any task that presents itself. Although not perfected, I have found this method to be quite successful. My work ethic, responsibility, and my drive to further my education and knowledge have never failed me. Life can seem tough and demanding on a very consistent basis, but I believe that I have cultivated a plan to accommodate and withstand any trial
In reviewing your personal and professional values, what surprised you, and what helped you affirm your beliefs?
Values often use modified methods and styles; I have utilized these different ethics in my career, which has aided me in improving, the environment at work and in my life. Having these particular skills of approaching situations causes an optimistic environment, respect for others, honesty, and reliable outcomes. I have had the comfort of knowing whether, you’re working or at home or out in public, individuals appreciate this kind of merit. These values cause high points in your character with families, patients and your colleagues. Real richness comes from knowing you’re assisting patients with top-quality care, and these goals are obtainable. Identification of these values prepares an