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Decrease Of The Behavior Of Perfectionism

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This major term paper is designed to show the decrease of the behaviour of “perfectionism” within a 20 year old, male university student. This paper is designed to achieve a more realistic and sustainable lifestyle as well as to decrease the negative effects of “perfectionism” and effective ways of dealing with this type of behaviour. Negative effects of “perfectionism” typically include depression, anxiety, OCD, deterioration of social aspects and emotional aspects. In the past methods he has used included maintain outside social relations, decreasing the withdrawal period after an unattainable goal hasn’t been achieved. Often times the participant would seek advice from his mother who also suffers from being a “perfectionist” by doing so …show more content…

Through research multiple ways to fight against “perfectionism” has been found. The list includes: maintaining a healthy lifestyle and environment, keep up with outside interests and hobbies, devote time each day to spend away from the “perfectionist” mindset and unrealistic goals, remain who you are as an individual regardless of the approval or disapproval of the personality disorder, seek out support from family and friends who understand the process of being a “perfectionist,” seek professional help or advice. Mainly the methods of maintaining outside interest and hobbies, as well as devoting time every day to spend away from an unrealistic mindset will be used in this case. Another reinforcement that will be used on top of these mentioned above will include, the reassurance of researching people who are highly successful and realizing that defeat is necessary to end up where you want to …show more content…

Which in turn leads to failure, which will lead to disappointment and negative feelings of worthlessness or not being good enough, which in time could lead to depression, anxiety, etc… “Perfectionism – the maladaptive practice of holding oneself or others to an unrealistic, unattainable or unsustainable standard of organization, order, or accomplishment in one particular area of living, while sometimes neglecting common standards of organization, order or accomplishment in other areas of living.” (Out of the fog 2007-2015, retrieved from: http://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/perfectionism). A full description of “perfectionism” as by article reads: “Perfectionism in its Adaptive form is often seen as a compliment in reference to diligence and the pursuit of excellence. But the Maladaptive (or neurotic) form is a destructive, dysfunctional type of persistent perfectionism, which is ultimately damaging both to the perfectionist and to those closest to them.” (Out of the fog 2007-2015, retrieved from: http://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/perfectionism). This is a personality disorder that the participant has struggled with for as long as he can remember; the origin is unsure but is believed that it may have come from his parents who are also “perfectionist.” While there is no concrete evidence that “perfectionism” is hereditary,

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