This major term paper is designed to show the decrease of the behaviour of “perfectionism” within a 20 year old, male university student. This paper is designed to achieve a more realistic and sustainable lifestyle as well as to decrease the negative effects of “perfectionism” and effective ways of dealing with this type of behaviour. Negative effects of “perfectionism” typically include depression, anxiety, OCD, deterioration of social aspects and emotional aspects. In the past methods he has used included maintain outside social relations, decreasing the withdrawal period after an unattainable goal hasn’t been achieved. Often times the participant would seek advice from his mother who also suffers from being a “perfectionist” by doing so …show more content…
Through research multiple ways to fight against “perfectionism” has been found. The list includes: maintaining a healthy lifestyle and environment, keep up with outside interests and hobbies, devote time each day to spend away from the “perfectionist” mindset and unrealistic goals, remain who you are as an individual regardless of the approval or disapproval of the personality disorder, seek out support from family and friends who understand the process of being a “perfectionist,” seek professional help or advice. Mainly the methods of maintaining outside interest and hobbies, as well as devoting time every day to spend away from an unrealistic mindset will be used in this case. Another reinforcement that will be used on top of these mentioned above will include, the reassurance of researching people who are highly successful and realizing that defeat is necessary to end up where you want to …show more content…
Which in turn leads to failure, which will lead to disappointment and negative feelings of worthlessness or not being good enough, which in time could lead to depression, anxiety, etc… “Perfectionism – the maladaptive practice of holding oneself or others to an unrealistic, unattainable or unsustainable standard of organization, order, or accomplishment in one particular area of living, while sometimes neglecting common standards of organization, order or accomplishment in other areas of living.” (Out of the fog 2007-2015, retrieved from: http://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/perfectionism). A full description of “perfectionism” as by article reads: “Perfectionism in its Adaptive form is often seen as a compliment in reference to diligence and the pursuit of excellence. But the Maladaptive (or neurotic) form is a destructive, dysfunctional type of persistent perfectionism, which is ultimately damaging both to the perfectionist and to those closest to them.” (Out of the fog 2007-2015, retrieved from: http://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/perfectionism). This is a personality disorder that the participant has struggled with for as long as he can remember; the origin is unsure but is believed that it may have come from his parents who are also “perfectionist.” While there is no concrete evidence that “perfectionism” is hereditary,
To me, a perfectionist is someone who pays close attention to detail and makes sure whatever they do is to their best capabilities. Ever since I was young, I tried to do everything to the best of my efforts, whether it was a small art project or my math homework. It’s a bit of a challenge
The focus of this paper is primarily centered on the negative repercussions which may accompany perfectionism. A perfectionist is likely to have learned early on in life that the level of achievement or accomplishment that one has achieved is the basis for how others value others. Therefore, he or she might have learned to value him/herself on the basis of other people's approval. His/her self esteem could be based primarily on external standards which could leave him/her vulnerable and sensitive to other people's opinions and criticisms. Perfectionism may be in itself a means of defense against the criticism of others. (http://www.odos.uiuc.edu/Counseling-Center/perfecti.htm) Many negative thoughts, beliefs, and feelings can accompany perfectionism, and it is these
Perfectionism is feeling anxious about a project because you want it to be perfect, so you stress over and procrastinate until the last minute. It is not being able to walk away from a task because you always feel that it could be more perfect. It is thinking that it’s unacceptable to make a mistake and that your achievements and accomplishments define who you are. “Perfectionism is a personality disposition characterized by a person’s striving for flawlessness, and the setting
Perfectionism is the essential idea that by achieving something great or being loyal to a concept, a person, or an organization, one is able to create a code they can follow to pursue or to achieve perfection. Take in for example Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tale called The Pardoner's Tale, where a Pardoner; who is a man associated with no church and only pardons for money; tells a tale of greed, betrayal, retaliation, and death. He proclaims that the moral of this story is the Latin phrase, Radix malorum est cupiditas, which roughly translates to the love of money is the root of all evil. In addition, there is the epic poem Beowulf, where the titular character, known by all as the
Perfectionism is conceptualized as a multidimensional construct (Ayerst, Flett, & Hewitt, 2012). As cited in Ayerst, Flett and Hewitt (2012), Frost, Marten, Lahart and Rosenblate {I am working on getting access to this source} view perfectionism as a cognitive construct focused on concerns about making mistakes, posessing high standards, and doubting one’s actions. Additionally, Frost and colleagues also understood perfectionism as involving two
Perfectionism can be defined as an individual’s determination of extremely high standards of performance and behaviour. Hagen (2016) suggests that perfectionism stems from a genetic predisposition combined with environmental factors and an individual’s life experiences.
Do you push yourself to be the best? Do you get mad at yourself for not doing the best? Do you delay assignments till the last possible limit because of fear of rejection? Do you feel horrible when work isn’t done to your best ability of when minor failures seem like catastrophic ones? These are all signs of what is known as perfectionism (Pacht 1984). If you seem to agree with most of these things then you might be a perfectionist. According to Webster’s dictionary, it states that perfectionism is "a disposition which regards anything less than perfect, unacceptable." Many people in the world suffer from perfectionism. So is that case of Mike Bellah. His perfectionism lead him to a lifestyle where he lost
After an afternoon visiting multiple medical websites, I was finally able to grasp an understanding of what OCD is and why it causes one to develop the need to perfect everything. I also learned that OCD is much more serious than people make it out to be. It is a real disorder that one cannot be diagnosed with unless diagnosed by a doctor after participating in a number of physical exams, lab tests, and psychological evaluations. Personally, I have only participated in the psychological evaluation portion of the diagnosis process, but my result from that portion came back positive. According to my results, I do have obsessive-compulsive and perfectionist tendencies, however, they are an acute version when compared to the majority of patients who are diagnosed with OCD. Despite my results coming back as positive, I was not able to see the issue with having
Since the last check-in, I have read chapter three and chapter four of How to Be an Imperfectionist by Stephen Guise. In chapter three which is entitled "The Poison of Perfectionism", the author goes into detail of the negative effects of having a perfectionist mindset. The ideas that stood out to me the most are that there are two kinds of perfectionist, ones that are never satisfied and ones that are hindered from completing things if they think failure is an option. Depending which category, you fall into, I think I am more towards avoiding things that do not have perfect outcomes, they can prevent you from experiencing life to its fullest. In chapter four entitled “The Freedom of Imperfectionism”, this section talks about the benefits of
Everybody has something that helps to shape their perspective of life and how they complete different tasks. For some people, this could be a mental disorder. For others, it could be growing up with their parents divorced. Sadly, some children grow up without even knowing their parents. I will be writing from the perspective of a boy who grew up being a perfectionist.
On another note, whereby perfectionism according to some is believed to be a positive trait of an individual, to psychology professor Simon Sherry from Dalhousie University, he believes it is most of the time a behaviour that is detrimental; to which in professor can be mostly damaging (Charbonneau, 2011). According to a study by conducted by Dr. Sherry and colleagues, it was found that the existence of a high level of perfectionism among professors led to a lesser likelihood of them producing publications, gaining valuable citations and also publishing their work in high-impact journals or in other words lower research productivity. This could impact their career in the long run due to the more they had perfectionistic tendencies within them,
This piece of research is based on young adults between the ages of 18-26 and was conducted to conclude whether traits of perfectionism and depression are linked. Those who took part had no previous diagnosis of depression. The Hospital Anxiety Depression scale and the Almost Perfect Scale-Revised was used and given to 378 male and female participants. The participants then filled out this question anonymously only including their age and gender. A Pearson’s product moment correlation was used to correlate our results to conclude whether perfectionism and depression had any relationship. The analysis and findings of the study reported that the mean scores of the questionnaires showed a strong link between the two variables therefore there is
As I get older, I have begun to realize how unhealthy perfectionism can be. I’ve realized that by avoiding failure I rob myself of opportunities to try new things. If I only do things I'm
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There are some very definite signs when a man is a 'Perfectionist" You may want to know if he is, before you go any further with this type of man. "Perfectionistic" men can be very difficult people just to be around, no less dating, or getting serious with. You may want to know what your dealing with. To some, the signs may be obvious, to others they have no clue what to look for. I grew up with a "Perfectionist" namely my Dad, and have dated them as well. I even married one. I will never, ever date one again. And forget about marriage to one. Life is too short. So, if you really want to know what to look for, cause you don 't want one either, keep on reading. The problem with most 'Perfectionists", is that they not only expect