In every first encounter with another person, we make judgments about them almost immediately based on a few simple factors. In the first few seconds upon meeting a new acquaintance we will take in and subconsciously process their age, choice in style of clothes, hair, their posture and the way that they carry themselves. In that short time we will form subconscious opinions about them based on our own personal prejudices and bias. After the first initial visual judgment we generally move into the physical greeting. In western culture we will shake the hand of a person we have just initially met and this simple act will be the next test for our minds to run on this person. We will judge the character of their grip, whether it is a …show more content…
However, if the first impression was not a pleasant one we will likely experience some apprehension or fear at the prospect of encountering that person again. As the relationship continues it is possible to change your opinion of the person, but that first impression is nearly indelible, and it would take some extreme effort to alter. In the article “First Impressions” (Clark, 2010) we are first presented with a story entitled “John is an Extrovert” (Clark, 2010). This title is the first piece of the picture that I will build for John, and it immediately begins the process that my mind goes through to categorize John. When he is labeled an “extrovert” (Clark, 2010) I immediately assume that he is a happy, outgoing individual and he will be pleasant to talk to and interact with. Now I have some expectations for John, and when he “entered the store which was full of people” (Clark, 2010) there is no reason for me to expect him to be apprehensive. This assumption is validated when I read “John talked with an acquaintance while he waited for the clerk to catch his eye. On his way out, he stopped to chat with a friend who was just coming into the store” (Clark, 2010). This reinforces John’s social competence and his outgoing nature. I begin to form the idea that he knows a lot of people and that he has a lot of friends. “On his way back to the office he met a girl who he had
Some people said that first impressions are almost impossible to change. while others said first impression are able to change when we get through it. In this time it hard to judge people by just looking. we can’t tell people whether they are good or bad by their physical appearance, or we can’t tell about their personality by their first impression. This the time people don’t trust each other and love each other. In my position i completely disagree by the ideal thinking of that first impressions are almost impossible to change. I believe that first impression is possible to change . There are some examples we could proof it such as, the more you get to know somebody , the best you can evaluate his/ her personality, other is we have to
impressions made on other people weather we are in contact with them or not (194). In the book,
A considerable volume of psychological research has focused on the decision-making process in humans, from everyday decisions on what to buy in grocery stores to the global life decisions that will influence all other aspects of life. Some of these decisions involve making judgments about other individuals of our own species: what kind of a person are they? Do we like them? Are they fit for a given task? Although a lot of times humans answer those questions on a conscious level using anecdotal evidence or direct experiences, a growing number of studies have shown that subconscious ‘shortcuts’ consisting of fixed opinions about certain characteristics of individuals have dramatic influence on our perception of the people possessing those characteristics. These are referred
How first impressions are formed has been a subject of interest by many researchers in the area of psychology.
First impressions are very important and the Narrator’s impression of Sensei is very revealing of what kind of friendship the Narrator and Sensei will develop with one another. Upon first
First Impressions First impressions are very important. In the Victorian age, people based their whole opinion of someone on first impressions. Most times the first impression of someone is not the way they truly are. Sometimes a first impression can cause you to think negative of someone but later you find out that they are very nice and a very positive person. One example is when Mr. Darcy meets Elizabeth in the book ,Pride and Prejudice.
Much of the research in this area has focused on how race affects observers’ recognition or memory of others. Although people are generally quite adept at recognizing the faces of others who they have seen previously, doing so is considerably more difficult for faces of other-race individuals. This tendency has been called the own-race bias. Regardless of whether a particular individual is recognized or not, perceiving a target’s race permits racial stereotypes to affect a broad range of social perceptions and judgments, even in the absence of explicit prejudice. In some laboratory studies, for example, participants have been asked to make simple judgments—such as whether a target is holding a gun or a tool—that are objectively unrelated to the target’s race. In other studies, participants have been charged with deciding whether or not to “pull the trigger” on a target who is holding either a weapon or another object. In both cases, the race of the target affects the speed and accuracy of judgments (Sadalla et al, 1994). The facility to perceive others accurately from visual cues alone extends beyond the perception of sex and race. Based on only brief exposures to degraded video images of an individual, observers can accurately judge a range of personal characteristics. These include social categories such as sex, race, and sexual orientation and dispositional characteristics such as teaching effectiveness. Thus, even from these thin slices, person perception can be remarkably accurate (Ambady, 1992). Whether person perception occurs by inferring traits from behaviors or by merely perceiving the physical appearance of another, this is the foundation for how people respond to and evaluate others. Given this far-reaching impact, research investigating various aspects of person perception will continue to be an important area in social psychology for years to
Nisbett and Timothy DeCamp Wilson (1977) in efforts to add supporting evidence to an ideal similar to the Halo Effect. They staged two interviews with participants where the interview in both was a man that had a distinct accent (Nisbett & Wilson,1977). The interviewer in one group was as charming as he could be in his “appearance and mannerisms and accent” (Nisbett & Wilson, 1977). In the other, he was instructed to basically act more strict and harsh to the subjects. The resulting difference in ratings of the interviewer’s personality and other factors by the participants spoke to how people immediately judge someone based on how they presented themselves through multiple characteristics.
The articles that I read discussed Social Perception. Social Perception was described as interpreting information about other people. If you feel that you are familiar with a person, you perceive to have a better understanding of that person intention. The pattern of thinking can affect a person’s perception of others. The social contexts, in which you meet someone, can play a
My interactions with people vary by my first impressions of them, but I try and give everyone a fair chance and I think that is important. I believe I am friendly when I first introduce myself, and I try to be myself and show my personality and who I am as a person, and they can judge me based off of that. I might judge someone for their personality because I have such a big one, but also the conversation we have together. One example is, I went to a camp over the summer and there was someone who didn’t seem very friendly and didn’t look the nicest, so I didn’t approach her. Later that day, I decided why not give her a chance because she seemed alone
Everyday, we see hundreds of people. Whether we see them on the street, at work, at school, or on television, people pass through our visual field. Fortunately or unfortunately, we judge these people. It may be intentional, it may be unintentional, or it may be somewhat intentional, but we form opinions about people based on their style of dress.
To reinforce the reading assignment, “Leadership and Human Behavior” first impressions do affect our behavior. (Leadership & Human Behavior. 2011) The affect on human behavior and first impressions is directly affected by the Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. (Maslow. 1970) Dependant on how many of your basic needs have been met directly affects your first impression. For example, in the first story, “John is an Extrovert”, my first impression of John was that he was an outgoing employee, happy with his job and had many friends. This type of person would be great for your company and would be able to
It has been previously proven, that in the first few moments of meeting someone, we form an opinion of them. The problem with this idea is stereotypes. One of our society's biggest mistake is that we judge people based on what they look like, or how they act.
The dictionary describes introspection as the examination or observation of one's own mental and emotional processes. Kevin Woods stated, “Introspection are all about getting to know yourself at the core, uncovering your values and then deciding for yourself what’s the best action to take.” Your emotions and feelings play a major role in why we do things. If we listen to our feelings then we can find more things about us that we didn’t know. This could benefit us and help us appreciate more things and live but also may make us overthink some times. Karl Perera mentioned, “Introspection is good in small doses. If you are feeling very tired or have no energy and can’t find a solution as things keep rolling through your mind over and over then it is time to stop.” Overall, everyone connects with things differently; it is interesting to notice how you feel in certain situations.
My name is Lydia. My parents gave me this name and hoped that I could be friendly and always in good manners. I was born in a sweet and great family. English is like my mother language, mainly because my parents do export business and it requires them to use English frequently. I am very close to my parents and my older sisters. I share my concern with them and do girl talks very often just like best friends do. Family to me is a safe harbor and place where I grow and learn.