Picture this: two best friends, Jackson and Garret, have been best pals for several years, but Garret has started to use drugs and hanging around the wrong people. As a result, Garret has morphed into an entirely different person than the one Jackson grew close to as a companion. As much as Jackson wants to respect Garret’s privacy and decisions, it is hard for Jackson to let his behavior go unnoticed due to the love and care he holds for him. While involving himself in Garret’s corrupt path, to seek them help for him, may seem intrusive, a true caring friend seeks help at any cost to protect their loved one. When a someone you care about is harming themselves, it is your job as a friend to seek help for them, whether this consists of …show more content…
In this case, it is Jackson’s responsibility to treat Garret, who is struggling with an addiction. Garret may have developed this habit by hanging around the wrong people, therefore, it is Jackson’s duty as a friend to cut Garret’s ties with these “friends” in order to protect him.
It is a best friend’s job to protect their companion from harm and negative influence. Typically, a person will develop an addiction to drugs by fraternizing with the wrong people who influence them to start using drugs. To further prove this point, Bellum writes, “People with drug problems often have gotten in with the wrong crowd—and they don’t want to turn away from these so-called friends for fear of being alone” (Bellum). Though Garret may become upset with Jackson for invading in his relationships, it is Jackson’s duty as the best friend to remove Garret from the people that are possibly destroying his future. Garret should feel grateful to have a friend like Jackson who cares about him enough to risk their friendship. In Proverbs, it explains how grateful the friend in need should be for a friend that cares about them, “If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up” (Proverbs 4:9-10). Jackson is there to help, and even acts tough love should be appreciated. Proverbs does an outstanding job of explaining how to choose friends, “Leave the presence of a fool, for there you do not
Trust is an essential factor in the helping process. Without it, clients will not feel free to share their most intimate thoughts and feelings. They will not be completely honest or forthcoming in conversations which will hinder the professional’s ability to truly help the client. For this reason, the promise of confidentiality becomes critical to the process. It is the “secret keeping duty” all helping professionals have an ethical obligation to observe (Younggren & Harris, p.589). It protects the client’s right to privacy and fosters an atmosphere in which one feels safe, facilitating trust and allowing one to feel comfortable enough to share their inner most feelings and thoughts. Most helping professionals agree that
I have a loved one, who was forced to go to rehab to help lessen her punishment for a charge she received for fighting in school. As a fifteen year old, rehab isn’t the top on the to-do list. So they do whatever they can to get out the fastest they can. Once they’re out, all is good for about a month, and that’s usually when the old habits start to kick back in. The old friends start to come around, bringing the same drugs around as well, not to feel peer pressured, but let’s be real for a second, no fifteen year old is going to pass up a good time with a long lost friend. So, the downward spiral begins again. But this time, probation is a key factor, because the rehab gig was court ordered. So now when she fails her next drug test, they give her a warning and add an extra month onto probation. And the next? Not quite, she’s arrested and put in the back of a squad car and sent to York County Detention Center for Juveniles. For thirty whole days and then back to rehab for thirty more. When we got family visitations, of course she is so emotional, ready to change and come home to make everything right. But can we really believe her this time? She’s lied, stolen and manipulated all of her loved ones so many times, it’s of course hard to trust her word. Luckily for us, lockup and rehab helped her. She realized she let the ones who love her the most down, but we never left her side and she’s more appreciative than ever. She’s now
By discussing this particular experience in detail, I can begin to understand the specific skills a counsellor may use in many different situations in order to help others (Egan, 2007, p. 13). In this reflective
In this essay, the characteristics of a counsellor and a friend will be expanded upon in order to gain a greater knowledge for deciphering the two.
The level of attention given by the counselors to each person is critical to their success. By aggregating as much data on the offender in their care, counselors are able to get a better picture of the person they are trying to help. This level of attention is possible with the appropriate level funding as demonstrated by the case load levels of probation officers today. By knowing so much about the offender, it creates a level of trust unfamiliar to many of the students. Students like Ronnie, who removed from the chaos at home and was ready and willing to share his experiences in a place he felt safe. Students like Ronnie crave attention and feel comfortable sharing stories of neglect and abuse because they finally have an attentive audience; since no one has listened to him before, students like him don't get to listen to themselves (p. 68). That level of attention is a key way to establish trust and build a working relationship with students who have had to grow up and survive in sometimes nightmarish conditions.
Darren currently lives with his guardians, their children, and a sibling. Darren follows household rules and expectations. Darren is consistently subject to appropriate consequences for bad behavior and consistently receives appropriate rewards for good behavior. His guardians always practice good supervision. His guardians clearly disapprove of his behavior. Darren 's home includes very little conflict, and the guardian’s authority is accepted and respected by the children. Darren has never run away or been kicked out of the house. His family provides numerous opportunities for growth and always provides love, caring and support. Darren has good relationships with his guardians, their children, and his siblings. There is a strong social support network for Darren 's family.
Drug and chemical abuse affect many families and that particular family that lives through a loved one who is an addict and the priority is to get help for the individual. In any intervention that involves drug addicts, a family's disposition is very important. Full recovery of any drug addict involves the restoration of the person's life as well as ensuring that those who are around the addict have the best ability when it comes to helping with abstinence which is a long-term goal. Abusers are often in denial or even believe that they are totally in control of their use of drugs
Many people believe in the principle that regardless of what a family member does, family should still always be there for them. However, when does a family decide that enough is enough? Better yet, what does a family do when a member of that family is addicted to drugs and is also selling them? Ideally, many families would try to get help for that member of their family, but what if this member’s addiction was so bad that they were arrested and thrown in prison? A good example of this scenario is illustrated in James Baldwin’s short story, “Sonny’s Blues” which tells the story of a man whose life experiences take him through an inner transformation and spiritual growth while trying to understand the person that his brother was and has become.
The guidelines also assert to maintain boundaries, beware my own values, be prepared to lose a friendship, remain mindful of confidentiality, and to recognize when treatment should be terminated (Gottlieb, 1993). However, concerning the dual relationship at hand, these guidelines give me ideas to ponder on when dealing with a close acquaintance.
There are numerous ethical issues a counselor must confront during their work; dual relationships and confidentiality being two of them and are going to be discussed here. Both are important to both the client and the profession, as they set the expectations for how counselors are to act professionally (Miller, 2015). Ethical principles “direct the moral and value-based decisions that affect the counseling process” (p. 557). Without them, the profession lacks these moral and value-based directives and the ship that is “addiction counseling” has no rudder. It is directionless and adrift.
While the social worker was assigned to the child welfare case he discovered that his client, who is a mother of two children, was addicted to drugs and, on many occasions would exchange sex for drugs. The social worker believed that a logical goal for his client would be to enhance the client’s morality. Accordingly, he drew up a plan, in order to help his client lead a virtuous, wholesome, and productive life.
In psychology, crisis intervention models are designed to help mental health professionals in dealing with a variety of situations. This is because the conditions surrounding patients, their friends or family have become severe enough that some kind of intercession is necessary. In the case of drug abuse, these tools are utilized to address the underlying problems and introduce possible solutions. To fully understand the best approach requires comparing crisis intervention techniques. This will be accomplished by: examining two different crisis intervention models and psychological first aid strategies. Together, these elements will highlight the most effective tactics for reaching out to individuals who are suffering from substance abuse.
When my sister hit her teenage years, she hit a slippery slope of partying and drugs. Our family went through some hardships with Jelly’s drug and alcohol addiction. Jail time, drug rehab, in and out patient; however, my mother and I stood by Jelly’s side through it all. We were working on mending our family wounds when it happened. An old love and drug buddy of my mothers, Jeff, had kept in contact with her over the years. Still a frequent drug user, Jeff somehow convinced my mother to let him move in with us. Jeff was not just a drug addict; he was a thief, a liar, and a woman beater, as we would soon find out.
Another way people are able to change is by having someone they can go to for help, not just a person that will help, but someone that will not give up on them. Many young subjects in Giddings State School have had someone, usually parents, who have given up on them early in their lives. The subjects came up with the idea that if their own parents don’t want them, then why would anyone else. Hubner concentrates on a girl named Jani, who has faced this abandonment and has created issues with the other girls in her therapy group at school. Hubner says “The psychologists do not want to kick her out of the group. That would replicate what happened at home…. If they remove her, Jani will tell herself, ‘See, I’m no good. I knew it.’ Her cycle of destructive, attention-seeking behavior will spin on, ruining her life and harming others…” (Hubner 160). Psychologists at Giddings understand the troubling backgrounds of the subjects and put all their effort into getting every offender through the resocialization process and back into reality. Jani sadly was a case where they could not help her. The psychologist knows that there will never be a 100% successful rate in their program; it’s a sad reality that some people need to be kept in prisons and away from harming others.
his therapy sessions, within time, Will evaluates his relationships with the people he is close