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Jesse Vs Agnus

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Growing old is inevitable, it is something that everyone goes through, well unless you are the Tuck’s. The Tuck’s some how lucked up and gained every lasting life, is it luck or is it a curse? That depends on which Tuck you ask. There is no pain from growing old and no dying. Agnus, Mae, Miles, and Jesse all have accepted their eternal life differently but, the two that differ the most are Agnus and Jesse. Agnus has a difficult time dealing with the fact that he will never die, whereas Jesse has embraced his longevity of life. “You can’t have living without dying. So you can’t call it living, what we got. We just are, we just be, like rocks beside the road.” (Babbit, p. 64). Growth is a major part of life and the Tuck’s don’t get to experience that anymore so Agnus feel’s stuck. He wants to experience getting old and dying because it is the cycle of life. He has watched people he knew die and how much things have changed around him and he is envious of the ones that get to have that. According to Zastrow, most elder adults reflect on their livesand conclude what was meaningful about it and with that try to accept that their years left are limited (p 647). It seems that Agnus has already participated in this idea of life review many times but, …show more content…

Jesse is a free spirit, he lives in the moment, just as many people in early adulthood. He also does not stay in one place too long, constantly moving from job to job and not just because he does not want anyone to know of the secret. Jesse’s constant moving around is a great example of Peck’s theory of emotional flexibility (Zastrow, 2013, p. 470). Jesse’s ability to easily shift emotional investments from one activity to another, makes it easier for him to accept his eternal life. Another example of Jesse’s emotional flexibility is when he tells Winnie that they could get married and travel the world (Babbit, p.

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