Men's Double Standards

Moreover, men make all the major decisions in the household because they know more of what is going around the city, then women do. Also, they went to school and are smarter. Women should not be able to vote and make the wrong and illogical decision because they don’t know what is going on around town. Men only want to protect women from the harsh and cruel world. Unlike women, men are emotionally stronger and are capable of facing danger.

Deborah Tannen and William Lutz both discuss the difficulty of communicating. Their point of views may be different, but their conclusion is the same. Men and women have difficulties of communicating. Not because the two genders want to be complicated but simply because we don’t realize how or what we’re doing when it’s happening.

Men are treated vastly differently than women. For example, men are expected to not show their emotions. In “why men don’t last” by Natalie Angier, a Pulitzer Prize winning reporter, she described how even when men are young boys they have their emotions shamed out of them by their parents and their peers (Angier 1011). In “The War Against Boys” Christina Hoff Sommers, a writer of several books, wrote how men have it imprinted on them at a young age that showing your emotions is a sign of weakness. Men are also taught to be self-sufficient and not ask for help (Sommers 1061). For example, there were many times when I was in school but needed help. I never asked because I always wanted to think of myself as self-sufficient, that I did not need the help from my teacher and I could figure it out myself. Now, of course, I realize how dumb that was that there is no shame in asking for help,

The authors motivation for writing “Talk in the Intimate Relationship,” is “to see how male and female differences in conversational style can cause misunderstandings that lead to complementary schismogenesis- a mutually aggravating spiral, in close relationships.” (Tannen 28) Also, Tannen’s motivation for writing this article is to show us how men and women go about having different ways of talking things out, and the assumptions that they have and how they go about it. What the author wants us to think after we have read the text is, she wants us to realize how women are much more focused on involvement, and they listen for metamessages, whereas, men are more focused on independence.

Men do have different ways to respond to different situations than women, and it is

The first difference is how they listen to people talking. Women love to make “listener noises such as ‘mhm,’ ‘uhuh,’ and ‘yeah.’” They do this to show “I’m with you” (Tannen332). On the other hand, men listen in silence. When men are silent it usually is because they are trying to interpret the information. Another reason for a men’s silence is when they go into their “cave” because they are upset or stressed. Women misinterpret a man’s silence and they imagine horrible things such as “he hates me, he doesn’t love me, he is leaving me forever.” A women’s silence means what she’s about to say is going to hurt them or she doesn’t want to talk to them. If they can realize they have different ways of communicating then there wouldn’t be many worries or

In the essay Sex, Lies, and Conversation Deborah Tannen focuses on the differences and lack of communication between men and women though observations. She came to the conclusion that men were not lacking in their listening, but they were however listening in a different way than the women did. On the other hand, men aren’t the only people that have terrible communication skills. In many ways, these differences between the two genders can cause major conflict when not understood by the opposite side. A few examples of lack of communication may be when women don’t decide where they would like to eat, men who walk away from an argument rather than talking it out, and their decision making processes.

In a relationship it is very damaging and unhealthy to be controlling and wanting to be the one in charge all the time. Most of the time it is the women who want the control. Wuthering Heights and The Tragedy of Macbeth both have women that get the men to do exactly what they want.Women are very controlling.

     Most males have a tendency to think that they know best. A man will never stop at a gas station to ask directions from a local resident in a town that he has been lost in for two hours because of course he knows his way around far better than the local ever would. He will find his way eventually even if it takes him the

Men see women as mothers, wives, sisters, and daughters. They are used to women being submissive to them, and doing whatever is asked of them. Think about not having a say in life, or knowing people will not take an idea serious because

When people think of EMS, they often think of dramatic life-saving adventures, saving people from car accidents, and racing around in an ambulance. This is rarely the case. The life-or death cases are usually few and far between, and the majority of calls are medical rather than interesting car crashes. Also, the majority of all EMTs and paramedics are cross trained as firefighters. The reality of EMS is not as easy and exciting as it appears. Volunteer EMS now faces a larger strain of budget constraints and often a larger call volume, with a decrease in both staff numbers and availability. Due to this, EMS in the United States has many different approaches to the same problems. Some of the main problems that many services in Kansas deal with are the reliance on volunteers, long training times for new staff, and the low numbers, or

Gender roles are social constructs that defines what sort of behaviors are acceptable for men or women. These rigid expectations teach people through socialization that we should think, speak, dress, and be a certain way depending on which gender we are. When we are young we learn the behaviors that are socially appropriate for males and females; these behaviors are often based on gender stereotypes. For example, women are expected to love shopping and take care of domestic duties like cleaning the house, while men are expected to love sports and to work outside the home in an industry like construction or engineering. While men and women do have distinct differences that can 't always be chalked up to social imposition, these ideas of what it means to be male or female can be very harmful to people 's identity. People are often judged and scrutinized for failing to fit into the box society creates for them based on their gender. There are quite a few double standards that exist regarding gender. It is unfair to judge people more harshly for something based solely on their gender, and one common example of this is sexual behavior. Women are judged harshly for the same sexual behavior that men are praised for. This sexual double standard can have devastating effects on women who get labeled as “sluts.” Men who are thought to have a higher number of sexual partners or be more sexually

This may be because of the socialisation men receive when growing up. It is argued that men and women are socialised differently as children. Women are essentially expected to conform to norms and values that society impose on them: they are generally considered by society as the weaker and passive sex, labelled as a mother, a carer and are expected to be a conformist, deferential and diligent. Girls may be brought up to fear violence inflicted upon them whereas men are often socialised differently in that they are brought up to oppose it if threatened. Men are encouraged at a young age to be competitive, aggressive and sexually

But does it really matter who wears the pants? Men and women get into a relationship to love unconditionally and to support each others goals in life. In a healthy relationship, no one should be considering who wear the pants. Relationship isn’t about one side giving while the other isn’t receiving and giving back. Women may seem emotionless, controlling, and aggressive, but as successful women may be, they would still want their man to be wearing the pant of the relationship. Men often do not want to be controlled by women during the relationship. But in some situations, men will ask for your permission, does everything you request, and be spoken up for; he actually values your ideas

Women tend to be more emotional and rational then men, whereas men are far less emotional and react on impulse. The different understanding of the ways that each sex communicates is still to be studied. Women tend to react more emotionally than men, resulting in submerging themselves, mind body and soul into making decisions. Meanwhile men, impulsively react to situations for the sake of having a reason to do so. Men see women as less competent to making decisions that involve a lot of thought, and this is due to women’s