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Order To Live Belonging

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One of the toughest challenges we have to undergo in our lifetime is transitioning into something new. Whether it being moving to a new place, or getting a new job, change is inevitable. After reading Yeonmi Park’s novel, “In Order to Live,” I began to think about my own transitions in life. In her book, Park talks about her difficulties in escaping North Korea and beginning life as a new woman. Although my own experiences have not been as troublesome, transitioning into a woman has been one of the hardest challenges I have ever had to conquer. After reading Park’s novel, one can infer how quickly she had to mature and act like an adult at a young age. I myself may not have been as young as Park, but her and I share the similarities of transitioning …show more content…

Even before escaping from her home, Park describes certain events in which she had to act as an adult. One particular event that shocked me, was when her mother left Park and her sister by themselves. Park’s mother had to travel to a different city in order to provide for the girls, so the two sisters had no choice but to stay at home. The girls struggled but quickly realized that in order to survive, they had to ration their food and be responsible on their own. Another example of Park’s transition into adulthood occurred while she was in China. After her escape, Park and her mother were sold to their “husbands” as part of the act of human trafficking. At the age of 13, Park ended up with a man by the name of Hongwei. Hongwei forced her into helping him with his business of human trafficking. Park had to accompany him to meet new girls, from North Korea, so she could translate for him. With Park being only 13 years old, she had to grow up pretty quickly to understand what she was in. She worked for Hongwei and in return, he took care of her and her mother. I found it very admirable and inspiring how quickly she had to mature in order to care for her mother. Park was able to grow up under intense circumstances and transition into the women she is today through the hardships that she faced as a

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