One of the toughest challenges we have to undergo in our lifetime is transitioning into something new. Whether it being moving to a new place, or getting a new job, change is inevitable. After reading Yeonmi Park’s novel, “In Order to Live,” I began to think about my own transitions in life. In her book, Park talks about her difficulties in escaping North Korea and beginning life as a new woman. Although my own experiences have not been as troublesome, transitioning into a woman has been one of the hardest challenges I have ever had to conquer. After reading Park’s novel, one can infer how quickly she had to mature and act like an adult at a young age. I myself may not have been as young as Park, but her and I share the similarities of transitioning …show more content…
Even before escaping from her home, Park describes certain events in which she had to act as an adult. One particular event that shocked me, was when her mother left Park and her sister by themselves. Park’s mother had to travel to a different city in order to provide for the girls, so the two sisters had no choice but to stay at home. The girls struggled but quickly realized that in order to survive, they had to ration their food and be responsible on their own. Another example of Park’s transition into adulthood occurred while she was in China. After her escape, Park and her mother were sold to their “husbands” as part of the act of human trafficking. At the age of 13, Park ended up with a man by the name of Hongwei. Hongwei forced her into helping him with his business of human trafficking. Park had to accompany him to meet new girls, from North Korea, so she could translate for him. With Park being only 13 years old, she had to grow up pretty quickly to understand what she was in. She worked for Hongwei and in return, he took care of her and her mother. I found it very admirable and inspiring how quickly she had to mature in order to care for her mother. Park was able to grow up under intense circumstances and transition into the women she is today through the hardships that she faced as a
The Up Series documents the lives of fourteen children in a longitudinal study. The filmmaker interviews these fourteen individuals every seven years to examine how their lives progress over time and to examine how their socioeconomic status affects their life. In this paper, Suzy will be examined from age 7 to age 56. Over the course of the Up Series, Suzy’s personality and priorities changed dramatically in almost all of the aspects of her life. From the small bits and pieces of her life that were captured and shown on the series, the course her life could have taken could have been much different. Her story shows that one life event can change the course of your whole life. In the end Suzy was the poster child of how one life event can change the rest of your life. She is not necessarily the poster child for wealth, prosperity and privilege that the series paint her to be. Initially, she was because that was the type of person the filmmaker wanted to portray her as. However, in the end, she was successful at portraying herself very differently. It took her many years to do so, but she was able to do it. By the end of the series, Suzy changed the way she portrays herself, and much of this change has to do with the life events she has experienced. She experienced being a resistant child and young adult on the series, losing a parent at a young age, finding a successful marriage and experiencing financial instability. All of these events happened at an age the made her grow
The phases of life and social context is predicated through the sum of personal feats and experiences as crises and adversity are the greatest motivator which propel individuals to become better than they were before. J.C. Burke’s ‘The Story of Tom Brennan’ is an example of the transitional process through entering a new, unknown area which acts as a catalyst for beneficial change. Hindered by emotional and physical turmoil, the protagonist Tom Brennan alleviates his devastated life in the new town of Coghill forming relationships along the way and achieving new goals. Lisa Forrest’s article ‘Testing new waters after leaving the swimming pool’ (TNWALTS) is another type towards transitional change that explores the personal crisis and career
Throughout my childhood I could never say I had the most exciting life, even now I can still say that about my daily routine. Although my family put effort into nurturing me into a well-rounded member of society since youth, I never felt any change or progress personally; it was more as if I simply adapted to whatever expectations my elders had of me. I know this feeling did not apply to me only, in fact, I was once in a classroom full of fifty-two people who accommodated to whatever came their way.
Transitions are never an easy thing to conquer. It is often hard and stressful to cope with changes to one’s surrounding, but in the cases in which one manages to conquer this obstacle, elevation of knowledge and experience are great results gained from this achievement. I originally came from Africa and recently moved to the United States to join my mother and my step father. This great change in the things I had become accustomed to in my daily life was not easy, furthermore taking into account the fact that I had never experienced a transition so little as shifting from one residence to another.
The life pursuits and subjective judgments of many contemporary young people indicate that the transition to adult roles has become so delayed and prolonged that it has spawned a new transitional period extending from the late teens to the mid-to late-twenties, called emerging adulthood. During the college years, young people often refine their approach to forming their own identity. In these years, young people have left adolescence, but most have not yet assumed adult responsibilities. Many have dreams and those are what guides them in their decision making. In the video, 22 year old Casey describes her dream and comments on her identity development. Casey says that she became interested in Psychology in high school during her junior year when she took a psych course. She knew from then on that was what she wanted to do, but she hadn't picked a career yet. Casey said that she picked a career during her first year of graduate school, when she decided on gerontology. She said her happy and active grandparents had a lot to do with picking a career and wanting to work with the population. Casey thinks her identity was a gradual process and it's only really formed since last year. She feels her parents helped shape her morals and beliefs, but in between her senior year and her first year of graduate school, she started to form her own and integrated some of her own ideas. 24 year old Elizabeth and 25 year old Joel are shown discussing
When adolescents transform into adults, they think of this transformation based solely on appearance, but it is actually how they transform emotionally as well which leads into their highly yearnful adulthood. In the short story “Marigolds” by Eugenia Collier, the protagonist Lizabeth recalls her poverty-stricken childhood and the major events she experiences that causes her to be able to become more mature. By Lizabeth maturing from an ignorant girl to a compassionate woman, she is able to grow an adultlike perspective on life and thus relay Collier’s message that there is always hope, even in hopeless situations.
* Moving into society is a transitional phase, marked by new challenges, opportunities and relationships. Transitions in life can change an individual’s perception of the world and obstacles may arise which test individual’s strength.
Instead of staying in the secluded town I have always lived, I went on a trip, through a school function, that took me outside of the country I have never left before. I truly believe it was the first time I actually experienced another culture. Also, sleeping in cabins with people I did not know was a new experience but it was enjoyable. I feel as if I have transitioned into an adult through this trip. I acquired the skills on how to meet and live with new people quickly, and how to live on my own without being dependent on my parents. Also, I feel that I have seen more of the world and can understand others’ thoughts and beliefs. Now I have attained the necessary components to be an
Transitions are transformative for Individuals and others as they affect how people grow and learn through experiencing the pain of change. But, with courage and determination these obstacles can be surpassed and new beginnings and opportunities will soon be revealed. Being able to move on and start fresh, support, understanding and guidance are needed to be successful, and lastly, they need to have the self belief that anything can be achieved with hard work and determination. Experiences are evidence that you have been through obstacles in life and the person who you become is a result of how you handle change and be able to grow and achieve self worth and understanding. Having said this, some transitions can be challenging, difficult
Analyse how individuals in the THREE texts experience transitions into new phases of life & social contexts. Evaluate the effects of these transitions & their impact on individual & others. Transitions challenge people to concentrate on their identity of their lives today. It is an analogy that allows us to understand the transitions through time.
As a child, Park grew up in a well to do family; however, the family’s fortune took a nose dive when her father was imprisoned after allegations of engaging in illegal mining business were leveled against him. During that time, the country was experiencing relentless famine and food was hard to come by. Park’s father was sentenced to 17 years imprisonment in a forced labor camp. The human rights activist recently released a book entitled “In Order to Live: North Korean Girls Journey to Freedom” by Penguin publishers. Her upcoming book “In Order to Live” will be published by Penguin Press in the US and Penguin/Fig Tree in the UK. The book will primarily talk about the ability of the human spirit to overcome challenges and the overreaching power of love in defeating hopelessness. Parks has also written an op-ed titled “”Black Market Generation” which was published in the Washington Post. The op-ed has since featured in the New York Times, BBC, CNN and the Washington
In this article, the authors discuss an individual’s sense of belonging and the impact that stress can have on it. As most studies show, there are multiple factors that can impact stress in the work place. In this article, the authors take a different approach and look at all factors in life that can produce stress. The authors show that a sense of belonging in society today has an important impact on the quality of life obtained. In society today, a sense of belonging coincides with being recognized, having morale, and also establishing tolerance. The authors go on to explain how policymaking can be used here to influence the societies quality of life and incorporate ways to prevent social stress.
It is clear to see every one of Erikson’s stages play out within my mother’s life. As a 46-year-old woman, she has achieved most all of the beginning stages, such as autonomy and industry, but it was not until after she was married, at age 22, that she gained a more clear and confident identity while she simultaneously worked toward achieving intimacy. Though Erikson believed that one must have a secure self identity before moving onto the next stage, which includes marriage, it is evident in the case of my mother that the relationships she formed after marriage are what makes up the majority of her current identity. In stage seven she developed a mature love and fully found her identity through experiences as a mother and wife. She even went as far as to say that she would have “most likely turned
The struggle to belong and find one’s place is significant in the lives of some people.
Throughout the Human Behavior and the Social Environment course, we have encompassed the many stages of the life cycle process. Now that I am twenty two years old, I found the early adulthood stage to be the most influential, and the most sensible one to relate to given the point that I am at in my life. More importantly, I decided to research and apply this life cycle stage to a variety of milestones, experienced by my interviewee, Chelsie. Living just houses apart, being raised by single fathers, Chelsie and I found that we had many things in common. We have remained friends since we were children, and have only grown to be closer into our early adulthood years.