Many people are not aware of the communication skills that they lack, most will argue that they have perfect communication skills. Taking interpersonal communication has taught me that my skills are very poor. I walked in thinking there was nothing I can learn about communication and realized that I know little to nothing about communication. Since starting this class I’ve narrowed the skills I need to work on to the following four which includes listening, being more supportive and active, understanding, and improving my self concept. Although all four of these skills are something I can improve I think listening is my main problem.
When I think of listening I relate it to just hearing the message. I do not follow the process of listening that was taught in my communication class. Rather than receiving, recalling, rating, and responding, I often hear and skip right to responding. I do believe that because I don’t follow all the steps I forget easily or do not understand things completely, which leads to me either questioning later, or just winging it. I also realized that I have selective listening, because of lack of interest in some conversations I often block out part of the conversation, or lose focus and zone out until the end of the conversation. By then I know little of what was talked about and only respond to what I think is most important to me. Another bad habit I have when it comes to listening is my responding habits, I’m not sure how to respond to most
2.1 It is self-evident that communication and interpersonal skills are crucial in the workplace. Good two-way communication is important to enable the flow of information in an effective way whether it be verbal or non-verbal. Good communication has a positive impact on the performance of the team including; everyone is clear what is expected from them, they receive good feedback and recognition of achievements which makes staff feel valued and boosts employee morale. The manager needs to be approachable and have a non-threatening manner so
First, mindful listening is important in communication just hearing what someone says is not enough we need to listen to who were are communicating with and give them our full attention. “To listen well, we rely on our ears, minds, and hearts” (Wood, 2016, p. 163). I have a problem with selective listening and I have worked on this to become a better listener throughout class with my family.
Talking and listening are essential life skills. The ability to talk in order to communicate and exchange ideas and information, to negotiate with others, to express feelings and emotions, allows human beings to function well in the world and to be full and active members of society. Communication, to be effective, requires the ability to listen, to understand and to make sense of what is heard. On the personal level, when we listen, we give attention to the other person in such a way as to allow them to feel heard, understood and therefore respected. In that way, listening is more than
The aim of this experiment is to develop a better degree of communication skills. This purpose will be met by using different communication skill management strategies. Communication is targeted at conveying your message to others clearly and without any ambiguity. According to Wikipedia Communication a process whereby information is enclosed in a package and is channeled and imparted by a sender to a receiver via some medium. The receiver then decodes the message and gives the sender a feedback. Communication is the basic need of a society and being unable to communicate properly may not only curb all progress, as it is paramount to all progress, but also cause
Oftentimes, misguided individuals believe that knowledge and the willingness to share this knowledge with others is the key to successful leadership. However, what is often overlooked is the value of possessing effective communication skills to build relationships among one’s peers and leaders. For without the possession of effective communication skills one may find it difficult to not only succeed but also advance in the work place. Specifically in the field of education, where leaders are faced daily with challenging tasks, commitments, and deadlines, having effective communication skills is detrimental in creating a positive school climate in which teachers and staff members optimize student academic achievement.
Lately, I have been working on my communication skills and leadership skills at my service learning. I am starting to figure out each child’s personalities and how to work with them. I am also learning how to understand the children’s way of communicating as well. For example, one student will cry and not pronounce all of his words and we have to understand what is wrong with them. To get him to say what is wrong we have to make him go sit in the corner and let him take some time to calm down and use his words.
The type of listening problem I have is, Mindful Listening. I tend not to listen to conversation mindfully when I am not interested. As a teenager, I never fully listen to advice from adults, especially my parents. when my parents tried to give me advice about school or my friends, I wouldn't mindfully listen to them. Instead,I would try to tune them out by thinking about other random things. I would pretend to listen, but I would really give them my full attention. My reason for this is because I felt like the conversation was really boring, or that it was not really beneficial.
"The power of vision is the starting point. Once you have established your goal, you need to develop your communication skills so that you can share your vision with the rest of the world and create something unique," Tips on starting your own winning business. (2011, March 9). This statement is true. I consider my communication skill good to excellent. As the daughter of two school teachers I have an excellent command of the English language and they taught me how to present myself in such a way to adapt to my audience and have a confidence in my words. These traits have allowed me to be successful in a number of various professions, but I find my ability to communicate with
I believe my communication skills (especially written), including proofreading are strong. An example, for my senior capstone project I was selected as team lead. I managed team members (mostly by email communication) on group assignments, organized meetings, recorded a group log, proofread other group member’s sections of the paper, and the typed paper.
I give my self a overall needs improvement i am lacking the necessary skill set to successfully succeed in communicating. For example when i worked in a popular copy shop where communicating is all we do all day long. On several occasions i failed to let some body know the paper folder was bunching up papers jamming up the machine their was a 2,000 job that needed to be folded and was jamming up the manager noticed i had been working on folding that day and asked me why i didn't notify someone it needed do be fixed, we had to out source the job and lost out on money all because i didn't communicate the issues. I got written up.
My interpersonal skills, accelerated to a level of advancement as my responsibilities were centered on verbally engaging patients and their families regarding health issues. To gain an accurate picture of health status I had to utilize persuasive communication to skillfully abstract needed information during the triage process. On occasions, I had to concisely, communicate information with patients and/or families regarding health status and at times that was very uncomfortable. I remember on two occasions I had to accompany the physician in relaying news of the termination of life concerning family members and then was given the task of comforting the families until the hospital clergy arrived.
Listening is the act of mindfully hearing and attempting to comprehend other people’s spoken words. [1] Not only are you listening to the meaning of the words but the feelings being emoted by the other person. While listening to someone and taking in their words you can indicate you’re listening by nodding or making sounds. An example of its usefulness in business would be in customer service. Listening to the customers’ needs and concerns allows you to use your judgment and tailor your response and actions to satisfy the customer. The website wikihow lists 15 steps to improve your listening skills with pictures. http://www.wikihow.com/Develop-Listening-Skills
I appreciate the way you treat those you assist with courtesy and respect. You are able to successfully de-escalate interviews and keep upset claimants from getting out of hand.
When I finished reading the first chapter of this course and other articles which are in regards to listening skills, I could analyze my own listening skills. One of my best ability in a conversation is to pay attention to someone’s feelings when they are talking. Many people are not able to “listen for feelings” points out Lipkin (par. 4). People who are able to achieve such skill may have the power to impress others and to be a trustworthy person (par. 4). “Listening for feelings means paying attention to words that express feelings” adds Lipkin. Another good listening skill I noticed I have is giving feedback. When I am having a conversation with my friends or my family members, I like to nod or show that I am listening to them, what they are saying and understanding what they are talking about. I have never thought I owned such skill until my friends told me why they like to tell me their problems or other issues their dealing with. However; as everyone else I also lack at some listening skills. Some of my skills I lack at are interruption and inattentiveness. When someone’s telling me something, I interrupt them by asking them something or even by giving them advices. In addition, I also am not very attentive, because sometimes I am distracted by noise or my own thoughts. According to Julian Treasure, expert on this field, there are some exercises that can help us develop our listening skills (2011). One of them is silence. Staying three minutes a day in silence is a great exercise to refresh your ears and to be able to hear the silent again (Treasure, 2011). Mixer is also another good exercise, which means listening to different channels of sound (Treasure, 2011). This exercise is on my future plant in order to develop my listening skills and to manage myself to not be distracted from noise (Treasure, 2011). One other important exercise is listening
In fact according to a study by the University of Colorado, “One area of communication where most people are worst at is listening” (Poor Listening). This is a cause for concern as, “Poor communication can be an inexorable cause of stress” (Canty). Of course listening are by far the most vital aspects of being an effective communicator and an effective leader, two essential things that I desired to develop over the course of this semester. I also have an issue with not responding to emails in a timely manner, this too was something I decided to work on here. In