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Relationships And Love: The Core Of Relationship

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WE throw around the word ‘relationship’ vaguely nowadays. We say that we are in a ‘relationship’ with, let’s say, John Doe, but what is in it for that relationship? Is it a physical one, emotional one or maybe a relationship solely to prove that you’ve been there, done that? Teenagers are said to do reckless things, and we have to admit, sometimes, the things we do are because we succumb to peer pressure; we involve ourselves in relationships to fit in the crowd, but we forsake the core of the relationship—love. This is a general statement, and not all of us have motives as such when pursuing romantic relationships. But think about it, in any of our relationships –be it between friends, siblings, parents, or teachers– is love the centre of it all?
Love is a tricky thing to tackle. Sometimes, out of luck, we will find friends or have loved ones that are just so easy to love, but then again, there are also times when luck runs out, and we are placed with siblings or friends that make us wish God had given us someone else or placed us in somebody else’s family. The hard part comes when we have to face the music that some situations just don’t change; rather, it is our choice whether we conform to change or remain the same. As the ever wise Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Be the change that you wish to see in this world."
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