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The Life Of Education

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I have carefully considered what I am about to say. I have consulted several people (Some are college coaches, some are gym teachers and others, school teachers) whom I consider to be my "go to" contacts in the sports world for their opinions on this issue. They have come to the same conclusion as me. This option is not the way to develop any player for the future, and it is a terrible option for the mind and soul of a child. At this point, this is not a plea or request to change your decision on the matter. We finally get it. Rather, this email is a statement on how it is really just plain wrong and frankly, absurd for any kid under 14 or 15 years old. Andrew is the last boy leftover from the two U10 teams from June …show more content…

Would Andrew benefit from the coaching? Absolutely. Would Andrew have to work his behind off to catch up to them? Absolutely. So the better option would have been to say, "Hey, Andrew - here is the deal: we put you on the roster but you will have to work and train and PROVE yourself to us in order to be a consistent member of this team going forward. We will give you that chance. If you cannot cut the mustard, you won't play any games." Instead, we get "OK, kid - we will let you train and practice with us but you won't be rostered and you will never get to play any games, ever." To be honest, at first I thought that was acceptable. I was seeing it from the perspective of "something is better than nothing." Then I told my husband about it. He brought up the very valid point that there is basically no incentive for any kid in this situation to want to get better and it makes it even worse from the perspective of being singled out and ostracized. I envision it similar to putting a dunce cap on a kid and sitting them in front of a classroom of peers. Would you do this to YOUR kid? I have decided that I cannot do this to my son. One college coach that I spoke with mentioned that this is an age where growth spurts happen over weeks and months, and ability can change quickly with a coach who fosters hard work. Unfortunately, Wheeling FC has made their decision before he has even had a chance to practice and train with

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