The Problem Of Negative Energy Spreads Like Wildfire

Ben-Shahar speaks correctly while discussing how individuals must give themselves permission to experience negative feelings before they reach the point where they can completely experience the positive feelings. Therefore, positive feelings are inadvertently blocked by negative feelings. Dr. Mathieu (2011) from Psychology Today, discusses how “providing so many positive solutions can inadvertently blame people for their suffering” (para. 3). Henceforth, whenever people see articles on being happy and social media posts where everyone has their happiest face on, they do not accept the it is okay to have negative feelings as well. Ben-Shahar discusses how many people feel inferior while experiencing negative feelings, but in reality every person except the dead and psychopathic experience the same feelings. Counseling Directory (2016) identifies that “we are continually setting ourselves up to fail” (para. 5). Furthermore, acting as part of the human race means that individuals are imperfect. Striving to reach perfection is the beginning of failure because of the impossibility forever block the

How do our relationships with others define who we are? Others affect us greatly. The people who surround us everyday have a great impact on our own life. Friends and family are the people who create you, and are part of the reason of who you are today. For example, when there’s a new trend, or when someone says a mean comment, you might change something about you at one point or another. Who affects your life?

A person with a strong sense of self esteem will have a more positive outlook on life and will be strong enough to handle difficult situations through life.

By having folks trusting you in life, there are several positive benefits that we can get, such as improving success, love, etc.

Many times, the decisions we make affect and hurt the closest friends and family we love the most. (Lex Luger, n.p.). When this occurs, we as humans are left with two vital paths to choose from; strive to make a better version of yourself, or keep hurting those beloved ones, and eventually, watch them leave. For those who become better, will receive great power, and therefore, great responsibility. Although on the other hand, those who continue to hurt those dearest to them, will be left with nothing but themselves. In other words,until you see what really is needed in both one's self and one's surroundings, only then will you thrive.

It is important for a person to surround themselves with family and friends. Having trustworthy and loyal people is also vital. Lear’s arrogance had ultimately encouraged the mistrust of his wicked daughters. As he explains, “Which of you shall we say doth love us most? /

Both parties should become aware of the other persons feelings. People can sense when another person is aggravated, they can tell by body language and the facial expressions of a person, even before they speak with them. Most people started their day off with negative thoughts .the text reminds us that if a person, is always negative about life or themselves ,it can be difficult to successes and meet people .Being negative can create even more problem for that person and others who is around this person.

Negative feelings can get in the way of progress, and it is important to concentrate on what you want to achieve and to make the most of the support that is on offer.

Negative energy, easily it can be passed on to your loved ones. Even though they don't deserve the negativity, the passing of negative energy is like a disease and can be passed on to others. On a rainy Monday at school in the locker room, I start going back from the locker to dress in my street clothes and I was feeling my normal self but a bit under the weather. There was this one kid who is spraying his red Gatorade all over other people. It was getting on my friends, myself and other people and now I started having violent thoughts. I almost wanted to the punch that kid, but I didn’t because I know it's not worth it so I keep my cool.

Today in our lives, we are surrounded by many people. Some of these people we are surrounded by are either people we do not care for, or they are the people that we cannot spend enough time with. These people we enjoy the most of, are either our family or our closest friends. You may think that friends and family are just a like, but they do differ from each other, and without either of them our life would feel incomplete.

People with whom we share mutual love and trust are willing to resolve conflicts that do not in the long term mean too much.

Self esteem thrives in a nurturing enviorment. We will know and believe that we are loveable if, and only if, we are loved and nurtured by our parents.

Everyone has their own frequency, when frequencies match, energies match. So every time a person is in a bad mood because they allowed some external energy to cause them to “slip on that negative filter,” they are unknowingly emitting a negative frequency to the world around them. For example, if you’re in a bad mood and you walk into a room filled with people all quiet and irritable, you’ll notice that the people in that room will seem quieter and will almost completely match your frequency. Now think of a time when you were in a great mood because something really good just happened and you had your “happy filter” in. So you walk into that room with a big smile on your face, all loud and more willing to express yourself. Chances are the other people in that room will seem more full of positive and happy energy. Not because its magic, but because you changed your “filter”, which changed your frequency, which immediately evolved everything that is external to your subconscious. Now does it really physically “change” the environment around you? Absolutely not, like I said earlier. It is not a magic trick and your brain does not control your reality. Yet in a sense, it sort of does. The state of your mind is a major factor in how you will view and work through any scenario you experience through out your lifetime. The key is to gain the knowledge and awareness of these filters so that you can gain more control over your emotions, self

Nathan DeWall, a Psychologist at the University of Kentucky says that “Humans have a fundamental need to belong. Just as we have needs for food and water, we also have needs for positive and lasting relationships.” The need to belong can be so strong that we are willing to change who we are just to belong to a group. Most times it is small changes. For people who are people pleasers, we will go out of our way to help others, even if that means we are neglecting ourselves, just to get their approval.

There are many effects to this from having a negative mind and drained energy. I’ve seen negative people everywhere. Relationships, friendships, and even between family members. These people don’t want to see you happy on your own. They want to see you become unhappy with your life and that’s how