David Beador

Ben and Katie use benevolent lies to avoid tension or conflict with their children so they wouldn’t know that they weren’t really together and how bad the relationship really was

The authors do not have any professional training on relationship counseling. They may, however, have personal experience through relationships of their own, but this is not made clear in the essay. With their strong defense of men in marriage, I do feel as if the authors are married, due to the way

Capuzzi and Stauffer (2015) state that assessment of the needs of marriage and family therapy go beyond just the instruments, in fact “Snyder, Heyman, and Haynes (2005) noted that more individuals reported seeking treatment for marital problems than any other single type of problem, with a majority of individuals surveyed identifying significant periods of turmoil within their marriage. Given the numbers of individuals experiencing marital issues at some point or another within their relationship, as well as the number of individuals seeking couples therapy, couple and family therapists must be familiar with instruments that may be used to assess specific problems and the quality of the relationship” (p. 89). Myers says that he likes to help people, but really wants to be able to remain their pastor and will counsel briefly with people, but if the trouble they are having is more extensive from his assessment, then he will refer them to one of the highly qualified counselors of the

When David Bligh joined Dexter Southfield last September he brought the love of art, teaching, and experimentation with him. Bligh teaches upper school art with a focus on printmaking. He has shown work in numerous exhibitions, including UNC's Crossover and Composites: Hybrid Forms, Techniques & Media, The Color of Thin Air at Sculpture Fix Gallery -Two by Two: Small Scale Ceramic Sculpture Biennial at Eastern Washington State and The Future at Scuola Internationale di Grafica in Venice, Italy.

It’s a bad marriage "Married two weeks and got the eye?" a quote by George shares our disbelief about

(Elliott, 1). This says it all on how their marriage was something where they lived

Marriage and family therapists help clients always with the help of the person’s family. I too believe that a person in order to resolve mental or emotional disorders requires the support and understanding of those closest to them, and with the use and knowledge of family systems theory this can be achieved. I also think that communication or lack of, very often is the seed behind problems within the family, that is why I appreciate the fact that marriage

It conveys purpose and selflessness as paramount to this growth. This unit closes with couples in distress and the crisis they face. It explains that addiction, infidelity, and major losses are some of the most common difficulties couples face. Recognizing unstable patterns and realizing when referral is necessary are covered here.

In every epic story there is a hero, and behind that hero stands a character who passed on a lot of knowledge and trained that hero. That archetype is known as the Mentor, a character that is known for being wise and is often known for speaking the voice of god. Two characters that can be considered to fit the Mentor Archetype are Athena from The Odyssey and Master Yoda from Star Wars. By analyzing the roles and actions of both characters, we can see that mentors are very important in our society because they educate the young future leaders and make them more powerful with knowledge. The first similarity lies in the psychological function of both characters.

The two therapy techniques that are being questioned this week are Emotional Focused Couple Therapy and Hope Focused Couple Therapy. Both techniques are effective in marital and couple therapy and both systems can be utilized effectively, however, I think comparable to other techniques the results depend on the people and the therapist. Hope focused therapy is centered around the brain and how couples perceive where their marriage is and where they want it to go. Watson (2017) states, “The approach is oriented around hopefulness and strengths, helping couples assess their strengths and create a positive narrative around them and their relationship to combat the discouragement and hopelessness that couples typically bring into counseling,”

Now that you have discovered the various degrees and licensing a therapist can have, it's time to look at the counseling itself. In some cases, marriage counseling is temporary in nature, lasting only as long as it takes a couple to work through and issue. Although the term "marriage counseling" is being used, marriage counseling can help couples of all types, whether they are married or not.

In her more recent years, she makes mention of her husband being an influence in her day to day life. They are both artists, he is a designer and a painter, and they have studios across from one another in their home. He is always reminding her of what she's expressed about wanting to accomplish and she hopes she is also a large influence in his life. They make sure that they don't overthink or get hung up on things that cannot be changed and are not within their grasps. They give each other advice and feedback, always being

relationship had gone bad at this point they had slept together and stop talking to each other for a

According to Kreider and Fields (2002) the chances of divorce among first marriages ending in divorce 40-50%, and within a 40-year period divorce in first marriage ranges between 50-67% (Gottman & Levenson, 2002). As such, some couple seek marital therapy when things are not working as they hope or before it get breaking up. Tam and Lisa is a couple seeking professional guidance because they felt their marriage is drifting apart and they want to improve their marriage.

Rather than giving up and ending the marriage, many couples could save the marriage by trying to work through the problems that arise. Many people do not realize how much hard work has to be put into a marriage for it to be successful. When planning a wedding, some couples spend a lot of time preparing the vows that will be exchanged during the ceremony, but sadly the partners fail to live by the vows day after day. Scores of married couples drift apart because their hectic lives do not allow them to spend enough quality time together, which is important for a healthy marriage. Communication is also an essential factor in working through problems in a marriage.