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Family Reflection Paper

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I remember a time when I was working in an infant classroom and I had a “those parents” moment. It involved the parents of a 12 month old who was still strictly on baby food, which is provided by the center. When infants in the classroom turned roughly 9 months we would speak with parents about the introduction of table foods from our centers menu in addition to their normal meals/snacks. Each week we would give them a menu for the upcoming week for them to highlight items that they were comfortable with their child sampling to send back to us. This process is set up so that when the child turns one, they are transitioned over to the regular menu and no longer have baby food provided by the center and the parents would be responsible for supplying the meals. However, with the parents of this particular child they always sent back the menus with yogurt and applesauce highlighted. Unfortunately, without parent consent, we could not allow the child to sample any of the other table foods. It made me wonder why they were being so strict on the table foods. The Cultivating Good Relationships article helps to put an end to the “those parents” thoughts by giving strategies that help the situation by building relationships, instead of dwelling on the challenges.
To better understand the situation, I could have asked the parents a few questions for clarity of the situation. Some questions that could be asked are “I noticed that you have indicated only yogurt and applesauce for table foods for your child to sample; do you have any questions or concerns about the other foods on the menu?” or “Are you comfortable with introducing more variety of table foods at this time or do you prefer to wait a little longer?” This would show the parents that I am interested in their thoughts and that together we can figure out a solution to this
To empathize with the parents and express understanding of their feelings builds a positive relationship between the teacher and the parent. To empathize with these parents I may say “I understand your hesitance of introducing more variety of table foods. It sure can be overwhelming selecting items without knowing if they are prepared in the same way as they are in your home.” This would show

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