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Male Privilege Checklist

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In the Nigerian culture, girls are born into a somewhat cruel and sexist society. A society which teaches them to grow into women who are submissive to their husbands; women whose responsibilities in their families of procreation include the upbringing of their children and the completion of domestic duties; women who do not have control over what is done to their bodies; women who must understand that they need to marry wealthy men in order to rectify the impoverished conditions of their families; and women who should know that they’re always subordinates to their male counterparts, whether in an educational, economic or political setting. Having said this, it is important to state that these innate expectations don’t apply to all Nigerian …show more content…

I agree that I have not lived the life of a woman, but as a young man who has grown in a family in which the aforementioned innate expectations manifest, I assume a position of credibility to empathize, and use the privilege bestowed on me to fight for equality. Deutsch’s “The Male Privilege Checklist” solidifies this claim as it states that it “is not a “victimizing” position to acknowledge that injustice exists; on the contrary, without that acknowledgement it isn’t possible to fight injustice” (21). Additionally, it should be noted that men are not to blame for the privileges given to them by society, and those taken away from women. However, are men willing to relinquish their “first big privilege”- “the privilege to be oblivious to privilege” (Deutsch …show more content…

This gives rise to the issue of girl child marriage in Nigeria. It is mostly practiced in Northern Nigeria and some parts of Eastern Nigeria. It is an arranged marriage whereby girls who are not physically and emotionally ready to get married are given off by their parents to men who are sometimes old enough to be their fathers. These parents deem their female children as the means by which their impoverished state can be rectified. As a consequence of this act, many of these girls are faced with traumatic experiences, some of which include domestic violence, marital rape, sexually transmitted diseases, and the overwhelming experience of raising a child as a child. Marriage is definitely a thing of joy, but this does not hold true when it is forced on someone who is obviously not ready for such

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