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Perception Is An Appropriate Relationship Between People

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What exactly is an inappropriate relationship? It’s pretty self-explanatory, it’s a relationship that should not be happening between two or more people. It is a relationship that goes on beyond work. We live in a world where men and women work together. We live in a world where men and women work together who are married. So if two people mesh well and hang out together that doesn’t mean they are wrong or in an inappropriate relationship because if that’s the case then everyone is wrong, especially in the Army. Who are we to assume that something is going on between two people unless you catch them in the act? The problem with people nowadays is they are so quick to assume that two “good looking” people who are married are messing with each other without trying to understand their friendship. …show more content…

Female soldiers are already at a disadvantage because we chose a career that’s male dominant. Perception is reality is a huge thing but what if someone painted a picture that wasn’t there and people got in trouble because of what someone perceived? Here’s why, jealousy, hate, or just people wanting to see other people suffer. Sometimes we as leaders need to take a step back and trust the people in our circle. When we start allowing other people to come into our circle we lose that circle of trust and once that’s gone it’s gone. A perfect example of misperception is myself. I’ve been going through a lot in my marriage and don’t wear it on my sleeves because I don’t want people to see me down. The moment I talk to someone of the opposite sex about it whose also married I get in trouble. Why? Because my leadership failed to be concerned about what’s going on in my personal life and just worry about the fact that I was in a room with a married man even if he was 10 feet from me. I guess we work for an Army where two people can’t be friends. I’m not sure where the term battle buddy came from but what I do know is that word is lost. So what is an

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