1. The two most important social roles that I play are the ones of a mother and a college student. I believe that because of my age and because I play both of these roles combined, people have mixed perceptions of me. Some of those people are baffled, and some of those people actually admire me because of it. These attitudes often come out in the same phrase: “I don’t know how you do it.” It is the tone in their voice and the look on their face that gives me the impression of how they view me. However, the only people whose perceptions I take to heart are my particular others- my daughter, my friends, and my family. 2. I definitely communicate differently in these roles, though there are similarities in each. I am very conscious of how I want to come across to both my teachers and my daughter. I communicate professionally and politely with my professors out of respect and the desire to be perceived as a dedicated and courteous student. I communicate respectfully with my daughter, but I am also an authoritative figure in her life as well as a guide. When I communicate with her, I make sure my message is getting across by choosing my words more carefully. A toddler’s capacity to understand messages, meanings, and lessons is not as an adult’s. I also make sure that I am not harsh when I reprimand her, because harshness acts as noise when interacting with a child. I rather make sure she understands me and how her words and actions affect others. 3. I have never been
Communication is constantly happening within the day care centre and in my job role I have a responsibility to communicate with staff, service users and other professionals. I use various forms of communication but I also seek to make sure that it is understood. Communication has got to be understood before it can be effective and so I try to ensure comprehension when I am verbally speaking by getting staff to repeat what I have asked them to do. I also write simply worded memos and emails to ensure ease of comprehension. When communicating with other professionals I speak clearly and seek affirmation when organising meetings or planning events. I also
As child practitioners we must work on our skills in communicating with children because the way we communicate with them is important not only for their communication and language development, but also the development of our relationship with them. Young children often aren't able to express their thoughts and feelings in words, or express them poorly. Because of this, it's important that child practitioners can listen carefully and help children to learn how to express themselves and also provide what they need.
Communicate with children and young people in a way that is appropriate to the individual, using both conventional language and body language
The skills needed to communicate with children are both verbal and non-verbal, getting down to a child’s level and maintaining eye contact and asking appropriate questions, making the child feel secure and developing trust. A smile, a nod or a thumbs up will also show you are interested in what they are saying. Listening and not interrupting them when they are speaking is vital so they can express their points of view and develop confidence in themselves, making sure that if someone is talking to you to give them your full attention, even if that means finding a quiet suitable place with no distractions. Being supportive to the child’s needs can build respect and trust between the child and adult also giving feedback in a clear, constructive way, so the child can feel they can develop with confidence.
When we communicate with people be it children young people or adults we adapt our communication to the appropriate language. We will do this automatically if we are in a meeting with other professionals, we will act and speak in a formal and professional manner, whilst speaking to a infant we will be more animated and speak in a higher voice which we know will keep the babies attention. So when I communicate with children I need to be clear so they can understand what is expected of them.
3.2 Describe the main differences between communicating with adults and communicating with children and young people
The skills needed to communicate with children are active listening; give clear messages, understanding the reply by giving appropriate feedback and being able to pitch to the correct level. Giving clear messages is important so the child knows exactly what is required of them. If you give an instruction in a jovial manner the child or young person may not be fully sure what to do. This may unsettle the child worrying whether you really meant the instruction or if they don't do the required task they maybe chastised. Being able to pitch to the correct level is probably one of the most important skills needed to communicate. If you use jargon, acronyms, sarcasm and innuendos the recipient will not understand, possibly switch off to what is being said and the instruction will not be followed. If you use vocabulary
Communicating and building a positive relationship with adults has many similar attributes as communicating with children and young adults, but the style of communicating can be different. In a classroom you would be formal around students, but in the staff room or out of school on a social event the relationship and conversation could be informal. The level of understanding and respect for the adult would still be required but the language and tone would vary to the way of how you would communicate with
Use of language is important, when talking to children you need to keep things simpler than if you were walking to an adult, however if you talking to an adult using very simple instructions this may be deemed as patronising, so it is important to choose your language carefully. The speed in which you talk is also key. When talking to children I tend to get down to their level and talk to them at a relatively slow speed, this way they are more likely to understand me more than if I was walking round above them talking as though I would talk to adults.
It is important to adapt communication to include all children. In my class the children are always greeted with a smile, good morning and how are you today. Some of the children have news to tell you. I get down to their level and have eye contact and listen to what they have to say. I always show interest in what they are saying as it boosts their confidence and shows that you care. When talking to the children I use
Effective communication is important in developing positive relationships with children and young adults because it helps the child to be able to communicate effectively with other people as they grow. Children react better to clear, concise communication and this in turn will help to build better relationships between child and adult and enable trust to grow, which is one of the key elements in building a relationship. It is also important to listen to the child and let them say what they want to say. Do not try to pre-empt or interrupt them. Try to keep your language and explanation simple and to the point. Make them feel that what
When communicating with children, it is important to talk at their level while maintaining eye contact and use positive body language. We must give them time to understand and absorb what is being said to them. This will make the children feel respected and develop trust and thus they will feel confident to communicate with us. The child’s learning and development will benefit if the adults in their life can communicate effectively about them.
To be able to effectively communicate with children you need to be aware of there age and level of development and adapt yourself where necessary.
Communication is extremely important in the workplace as it is essential that you develop good communications with everyone. This will then ensure that you develop a strong positive relationship, work well together and be able to share and gain information with each other. This will mean you can all work together to meet the needs of the children, young people and adults in the setting. If you do not have good relationships then it may cause bad feeling and a divide between colleagues. It may be the case that you will all not work well together or be able to share information then the parents and children may suffer. It is important to have good communication with the children in the setting as this ensures you have a good relationship with them which will help them feel more comfortable with us, which will help them settle in or provide reassurance during transitions in their lives as well as supporting them in their play and learning. It is also important that we remember that we are a role model to children and what behaviour we expect of them must be remembered by ourselves. Failing to do so will cause problems for children to understand the boundaries of what is acceptable. If parents see that you have a good relationship with the children it will help them feel more relaxed and helps them to trust us to care for their children.
If messages are not clear to them or if they are conflicting and contradictive they are going to get confused and maybe frustrated and will then find it hard to behave. If children are met with the same response every time they do something wrong they will be less likely to repeat at a later day. All rules and boundaries should be suitable for their age and stage of development and all language used should be clear and make sense not to confuse the children. You must