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What Influences Have Made Me the Person I Am Today

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What influences have made me the person I am?

It was a Tuesday afternoon and I was just getting to my psychology class and as usual I was chit chatting with my neighbors in class, Cpl Christie and Fausnight about the things that each of us did this weekend. Just when I had finished talking to Kara (Fausnight) about her weekend our psychology teacher Dr. Douglas walks in. As she is walking in I in my peppy self- personality ask how her weekend went. Dr. Douglas then proceeded to tell me that it was "none of my business"…….maybe she was having a bad day or was really stressed out or maybe in fact it was "none of my business". She also told me that there was a certain thing called boundaries and that I needed to find out what that was. I …show more content…

But like I mentioned before I've always been ahead of the power curve. So when my teachers told me that I would be placed on a special schedule by going to the 2nd grade for half the day and learn English and language arts and then go to the 3rd grade the other half of the day and learn math and science I didn't feel all that scared. Which brings us to the next stage, elementary school. In the elementary school stage a person faces the issues of competence versus inferiority. In my case I already knew I was smart. So as far as myself feeling competent about myself, I knew I could do it or id find a way to get it done. But one thing that I did struggle with was where I fit in. I was more advanced than my friends in the second grade as far as my math and science, and got to go to 3rd grade where I could be challenged. But since I only went for half of the day I sort of felt like and outsider even though I was friends with both groups. This dilemma carried through till I got out in fifth grade. After I went on to junior high I began to hang out with friends that were older than my self so I was introduced to things a little bit earlier than most adolescents are. But hanging out with older people also pushed me into the Adolescent stage of Erickson's theory. In this stage adolescents deal with the issues of finding a role or a sense of self or identity. They usually look up to other people and draw from them what characteristics that they like or even adopt a whole

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