Do Thais feel offended with foreigners?
Why do Thais sometimes feel uncomfortable towards foreigners?
Do Thais have sufficient skills to communicate with foreigners?
Do Thais feel offended with foreigners?
Foreigners especially Westerners have a very different culture and communication behavior than Thais. Kissing in public for foreigners is considered as normal, or shaking hands when meeting each other, while Thais make a wai for greeting and do not shake hands. Thais sometimes might consider western behavior as rude. Thais consider the head to be the cleanest and most important part of the body while feet are "dirty" in comparison - something most foreigners don't respect very much as it does not exist to this extreme in their own culture. (Pokasamrit, 2012; Samuifinder, 2006)
Why do Thais sometimes feel uncomfortable towards foreigners?
Most Thais are taught to be considerate and drawn back to others so once foreigners touch them or get too close, they might feel awkward. They might feel like they’re being harmed or that a foreigner is trying to hurt them. A Thai seems eager to please and give other people the feeling that he likes them. This attitude should not be mistaken as friendship or closeness. A Thai wants to be polite by smiling to show friendliness; is a way of life in Thailand and consequently it does not tell
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• Cultural differences – when the same thing means different things in two cultures, communication can be difficult. For example, it is seen as polite and respectful to make eye contact when speaking to someone in Western culture but in other cultures, for example in East Asia, it can be seen as rude and defiant.
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Many of the latter are very minute details that an individual may act without realizing how rude they may seem. Which is why it is very important to research the customs of a different culture before interacting with each other.
Being an ideal global citizen must include the passion for accepting others beside yourself. If people would inquire the customs of others we would have a better understanding of one another. With that, it could avoid children growing up to typical stereotypes, or blaming others for dilemmas in the world. In general, it’s really a commonality we share with foreign countries, its just done slightly different.